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My girlfriend was hanging out with her brothers and her guy friends, they're triplets so they have around the same friends and I guess they all hung out at the mall, and did their shopping. And her brother put on his story of my girl hella close to this guy, hands touching and shit, and I was like damn aight, and then the guy posted on his story and it was my girlfriend putting her head on his shoulder. And she looked at him and said "ew we're not like that".. then she looks at the camera and says "ewww you're recording me" And I was a little weirded out. So, after they went to the mall she told me she was coming over to mine, to hang out or even sleep over. And I said sure. She came over and she knew something was up with me and I told her and kinda yelled and got mad while telling her and she said "wtf why do you think like that??" and I said "because you're all over the guy tfym" and she said "babe you're crazy, he's just like an older brother to me and nothing more, you really think I'd do that to you?" and I said "idfk" and then she said "that's kinda fucked" and then I said "don't tell me you wouldn't ask if I did that with a girl" and she said "no there's a huge difference between you and I" and I'm shocked and I said "how tf is there a difference" and she said "it doesn't really matter" and I said "nah say" and she said "don't get mad but ngl, I trust myself more than I trust you" and I said "tfym by that?" and she said "I know for myself that I WON'T ever ever do that to you, I would never cheat, for someone who's got cheated on, I know how that feels, and even if I haven't got cheated on, I know I'd never do anything like that,....but you on the other hand, your kinda oblivious of your surroundings, the girl would be doing it in a romantic way, and you wouldn't even realize, if you saw his story you could tell that I didn't even mean it like that, and I knew he was about to gain feelings so I didn't stay with him at all...you can't be mad at me without knowing the full story, you yelled at me as if you were right there and I made out with him, and I didn't do any of that shit, in fact I stayed far away from him, and if you don't believe that you can ask my brothers, since they favor you over me anyways" and I said "chillax, I was just asking" and she said "okay I was just clarifying to you, I want you to know I'm all yours, always and forever" and I said "okay" and then she said "wtf" and I said "what do you want me to say after this shit you did in the mall" and I was teasing her but she got mad and said "I told you already there's nothing going on between us, wtf are you saying, I'm actually mad don't make me get mad and leave like this" and I said "idm what you do, and second I was teasing you, you're making me a tad annoyed" and then she left. She told me she was going to the bathroom and she did but then after she went to her car and left. And we had a whole argument about that too since she was ignoring my calls, and messages.
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At least she will know that you care about her, that you love her, that you only want her to be yours.
A deep down, we all low key like that. We like to be desired to that degree.
I think something important to clarify is that as humans no one can read your mind or intentions, and no one can read the others’ mind and intention. So it is wise to have much compassion and genuine conversation of the many aspects of life that cause confusion and resentment in an objective sort of way.
What are our instincts? How can we outsmart and not be controlled by our instincts? What boundaries work for us? What are the feelings, emotions, sentiments, desires, that all of us humans find challenging or tempting to deal with based on the myriad of external stimulations that affect us on the daily?
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We all wholeheartedly appreciate your words, your input, your presence, your genuine heart! Thank you for being you, just like you are!
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