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I want to tell you the story of my boyfriend and i, its a bit long and confusing to hold on.
When i was 17 my brother got married to a girl from texas (we live in oregon) Durring the time that they went together i met and started dating her brother, he was a couple years older then me and for 2 years we were friends then more just doing the long distance thing and seeing eachother when we could. Then one day it started going downhill, he seemed to start losing interest, looking back i think he was struggling mentally but with the strain of the distance and us both being young it fell apart.
Now when we had been going together i had gotten to know his cousin, i loved this cousin. he was amazing, cute, funny and when we were together there was a draw i had never felt with anyone else. The tension between us has always been so strong that people bring it up if they are with us.
He didnt know i was dating his cousin when i was so he was a bit flirty while i was still dating his cousin. Nothing ever happened because i wouldnt do that and when he found out i was in a relationship he backed off. when my relationship ended though he was the first person i told. We talked for a bit but i was still heartbroken and he didnt know what he wanted.
He told me he didnt think we should talk anymore which broke my heart again as i had really fallen for him in that time. It felt nothing like my previous relationships. I knew i was meant to be with him, the feeling i had when i was near him was so indescribable, a mixture of lust, longing and tension that made him impossible to forget.
For 9 months nothing happened between us, every day was hard for me, i longed for him talked about him, cried about him and obsessed on social media following his every move. I knew that he was without a doubt the one for me and i just took comfort in knowing that it was meant to be and so something would work out. I knew it may take years and i was ok with that.
Then one ransom december saturday my dad got a call, (i am 20 and still live with my parents, he is 25) It was him on the other line, i dont think he had ever really spoken to my dad other then a greeting here or there maybe but he called him and said "I am at a point in my life where i want to get married and i have often thought of the times when I used to talk to your daughter and I was wondering if you would be okay with me reaching out to your daughter again to see if she would be interested"
My dad said yes because he knew this was something i had been wanting for a long time. My boyfriend and i started talking that day and the next day made it official. We are so happy and even though we have many challenges (long distance, a huge house project to finish before we can get married, ridiculous costs of moving, wedding and house,) I am so happy i was able to wait for him and have that patience, it was 1000 times worth it, i got the guy i knew i had to have.
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