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I started a new job in September, I like my job even if it is not paid well, it was quite ok but I feel like it is cracking.
We are a group of colleagues and we use to have lunch every day together and then we have a coffee break. They used to have breakfast together in the morning and I remember my boss inviting me there in the first week but I was dumb I said I already had breakfast. Anyway - long story short - I thought because THEY ask me to go for lunch together with them EVERYDAY I thought they would not mind me being in their presence but - today after the lunch break one of the colleagues came to me (new boss of other department but we are in the same age) and she said that they would like to be alone at the morning and they do not want to kick me out but they just want to talk in private but I can join them during the coffee breaks after lunch.
What do you think about that? Toxic as fuck? I would never come back there however my boss is the sweetest person there and very caring and I doubt he would allow this if he heard that. Should I talk to him about this?
This woman is not my boss, she is the boss of the other department, then there is a woman from another department (a regular employee), and my tutor also a regular employee. And my boss - the nicest person there...
The reason was that I do not talk I only sit there...I am shy... extremely shy so I talk only a little... But I felt better so I felt like my shyness is getting better but now it was like a cold shower.... and I must say the woman who told me this interrupts me when I talk or ignores me when I talk or when I get a question from my boss she answers instead of me...it is weird because we were working on an exhibition (me and her) only a few days ago...sooo we were talking and I thought it is ok...!?!
I must say this "breakfast" and coffee breaks are in the office of my boss...so it is his office for now ...so I think he is the only person who can kick me out or no? What do you think? I want to keep in touch with him (I like him....) but I do not know how to react to these women... or is he like them and he only pretends to be so sweet? IDK
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