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For a full year, me and my fiance were in a long distance online relationship. We met on Facebook but couldn't be together due to the fact that we were continents apart.
He made it clear from the jump that he wanted to marry me. I had my reservations due to my previous failed long distance relationships but still had faith in him regardless. Some 3 months my online relationship began. I resumed a physical relationship I had had with a previou friend with benefits. This continued up until my fiance moved back to Cape Town. I ended the sexual relationship and exclusively dated my fiance up until the proposal.
I feel guilty about the whole cheating thing now. I feel like I'm starting a marriage on a dirty slate. My fiance is an upstanding religious guy and I feel like he definitely didn't hook up or date anyone in America. Please advise.
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You two made too many mistakes here. Let’s begin, for one meeting someone romantically does not work meeting them online. The vast majority of the time it ends poorly. Another big issue is he proposed to you after one year of online dating (which isn’t real). I think if you two actually get married that marriage will be miserable and won’t end well. Online dating is great to have friends with benefits but for monogamy. Do him a favor and don’t marry him. Or you can marry him and pretend it’s going to turn out well. We both know it won’t.
ReplyI say do go ahead and marry him and don't ever tell him of your cheating because it will only make him distrust you. What he doesn't know can't hurt him or your marriage.
ReplyHey, from what I just read right now it seems like you didn't believe in love from online dating until the guy proved you wrong but even though he proved you wrong,I still see the necessity of getting to know him better reasons being that you only know his online side,you do not fully know his reality side and when I say reality side I mean how angry he can get, if he is abusive, if he is easily jealous, if he is willing to constantly choose you over everything regardless, I am 21 years old and do not know anything about marriages but one thing I am is that I'm a observer and an analyst so you do not have to tell him that you cheated because you also do not have any reassurance that he didn't cheat where he was.
ReplyI think you should confess.
ReplyWould you get on an airplane if the airline told you the airplane had not had basic required maintenance for over 1 year, and you were going on a long flight over the ocean?
We trust the airline to do the their role in the business relationship, and if they fail, then we demand they tell us so we can decide on our own if we want to take the risk.
Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus.
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