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Life is too much for me lately... I wanna tell all the people that I've ever given advice that I still use some for me, but it's hard sometimes... Because you are mostly in your head and suffering silently and this reality keeps going and sometimes it can be too much to even find self growth when things seem to be so samey all the time. I also wanted to say that I hate people who are overachievers when all my life I've been going nowhere. My journey here on this website has been helpful but also stressful... I've been here for 2 plus years. Now I complain any chance I get and almost daily. Complaining doesn't do much but at least it helps me get validated. I think life would be wonderful if each time we come here to complain someone would write a kind comment that hits you in the best possible ways... some days have only been ruined when someone entered to remark how cringe I sound for not speaking English or how my story or what I share doesn't matter. These small snippets of the past that I go back to reading every once in a while make me feel somewhat good about myself, even if it gets forgotten by pretty much everyone. I do not like life, sometimes I do... trust me, but honestly, sometimes I'd rather run away and commit to dying, but I know I would be letting down so many people, even though it seems like the most logical explanation for someone who is so sick of life.
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Have you ever thought of becoming an overachiever yourself?
ReplyI can't. I'm worthless.
ReplyI understand that. I suffer being bipolar so I have depression episodes when my thoughts are very dark about myself. Currently I’m on my mania episode which is pretty much the exact opposite. I know what I am (insane). Maybe you can try for me if not for yourself. I like how we can have this discussion and still be complete strangers. I’m telling you if you try that will improve my subconscious mind. Someone who would try to make someone else’s life better is not worthless. Especially someone you don’t know that right there is something only good people would do. I believe in energy balance and our planet has so much negativity everyone would benefit off you vibing good energy. I understand your thought process right now is negative. Trust im there too often as well. Can you list out some things you enjoy doing . Look over the list and pick as many things as you want and decide to be in the top 25% in the world in that category. Then pick one thing and decide to become in the top 1% in that category. I’ll give you an example I since childhood have been interested in and have a talent for NLTHE. I made it a priority to to be the best in the entire world of all time in that category. I do need other activities/categories though just to get in the top 25%. I need that for balance. I’m very disadvantaged as I have permanent brain damage. I believe that you as of now are just in a rut. It’s not your whole life at least you can choose not to let it be your whole life. You deserve better then what you have now. Please for me become an overachiever.
ReplyI don't know if I can, but thanks.
ReplyWhat is NLTHE?
ReplyI looked it up too and I don't know. 😅
Replyi hope you can improve. My mental state is not the best but it is slowly improving. Please stay, even if you only like life sometimes, stay! It may be worth it for you. If you have people you love and that love you, living must be worth it. God please bless your mind, amen.
Replyim sorry love
Replymy mental states is wrost then ever in present because of people around me make me feel worthless even after i give my 100% to make them happy and satisfied but at the end i am the one who is wrong and worthless because everyone has a sport but i did not have one so they blame me for there mistakes and feel happy by making me feel wrost.
ReplyMy dear it's really hard and always remember disease is disease so these feeling is also part of mental health disorder and it's common and normal so all we need to do is to treat our problem rather than reacting on certain situation or emotions you know everyone at some point of life feels this way some people express while some are kind of introvert but all that matters is is it's a temporary emotion so how you deal with it.like its your mental training to deal with the situation that you wanna avoid or don't like.so what you need to do is analyse your behavior like what situation makes you feel like this and start working on it.
Just remember that everyone faces difficulties but the thing that makes difference is way of dealing or thinking about certain situation and am sure you will win from this bad feeling as million thousands of people work on it and succeeded.stay strong dear I Know it's hard🥺❤️ but keep trying for your betterment until you're breathing
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