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So I mentioned this situation before, but here is a small summary:
There is this guy I have known for basically all of my life, basically family, however, we never really talk with one another. About a month ago, I developed a small crush on him, and it has only progressed. I have had crushes before but I always assumed they would never like me and I should just move on, although with him, I feel like God is telling me to talk to him. So I texted him one day and we talked for a little bit and this happened about 3 ish times, but that is about it. It seems as if my attempts to make a friend- let alone a crush- might be failing. Not because he isn´t interested, but because I am just bad at talking lol.
Anyway, the prom at my school is in less than a month and I want to go with him. I finally found the courage to ask him and then I found out he was going on a 2 week vacation to Florida with his family and friends. By the time he comes back, prom will be in 2 WEEKS!
So now I have been debating if I ask over the phone, but I don´t want to call him when he is busy and on vacation- it would just be a weird thing to ask on the phone. However, I don´t want to ask him in person and spring a 2-week notice on him- if he says yes.
That is the other thing- I cannot even tell if he would be interested in me. I mean- I catch him looking at me at church a lot- but we have never spoken in person. We text- but only when I spring a conversation. I don´t know.
I sound so silly lol my mind isn´t straight.
So for anyone more ¨experienced¨(if that is even the right word) in boys or love- what do you think? What should I do?
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Hey, it doesn't hurt to ask! Maybe taking the romantic pressure off of it will help and you can just go as friends. It's best to ask him now so he and his family will have time to prepare. To some families, prom is a very big deal! I'd say go for it, the worst he can say is no because he'll be too busy on vacation. Good luck my friend! You got this!
ReplyASK BEFORE HE LEAVES!! Worst case scenario, he declines but then you won't have to see him for 2 weeks and will probably get over it.. Best case scenario is he agrees, and he gets to go on holiday and be excited about going to prom with u.
ReplyHe already left lol
I was going to ask him and then I found out he was going to be gone by next time I'd see him
ReplyOh man, its still okay!! Imo I wouldn't ask over text, just ask after he comes back. You could go as friends if u feel like u can't fully express ur feelings towards him, but itd be cute if u went as a couple <3 WISHING U THE BEST OF LUCK GIRL!! ❤
Replythank you so much! <3
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