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I don't think I'm marriage material and I've always wanted a fairytale romance
1 month ago · 6 · Stress need advice, +2
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I genuinely don't think I'm marriage material or someone people can be romantically inclined to at all.I cannot follow instructions, forget a lot and have a low tolerance for pain. I cannot cook , I'm like really not good lol. I can't wash dishes either , have sensory issues, I don't mean it in a spoilt way my skin reacts to hot water + sometimes washing dishes makes me feel like puking. I can't iron and do not like people ordering me around. I'm also kind of scared of fire so that fuels the cooking issue , saw something traumatizing as a child related to fire lol and it stuck to me plus I'm extremely clumsy and don't trust myself around it. I also get tired very easily and have chronic urticaria which contributes to this and gives my skin horrible reactions. I'm also kind of afraid of being near strange men cuz i was molested for a while as a child. My parents have tried everything to make me more useful but honestly I'm starting to think it's a lost case. I cannot do things right even if I want to. I've also always been seen in a very sisterly, cute kid type by guys which is sure okay but I'm worried my own spouse won't be attracted to me. I'm also not extremely pretty, a solid 5.5 or 6. I overthink. I'm also very childish and tend to think a bit differently about stuff and love intellectual debates and banter. I also tend to get extremely stressed if someone I love is upset and have physical reactions to it like shaking.My point being , I'm a man's nightmare and I do not know what to do about it.
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You sound like me. I don't wanna do typical housewife crap either. I considered myself a lesbian but that don't work for me either. I am finding happiness in solitude honestly. I can just do things when I want and do stuff however I want to. I can focus more on my hobbies which means so much more to me than finding anyone. Never wanted kids so it's kinda like I gave myself a get out of jail free card right there.
ReplySexuality of a person doens't mean they don't need to vaccuum their home. Single straight men still have to vaccuum their home.
ReplyI'm perfectly fine cleaning my own home on my own terms. I don't need someone whose going to just sit there in front of the TV and watch me do everything though. That's why I'm good on my own.
Replysame that would piss me off lol
ReplyYeah some of this stuff is something I want to learn even if it's just for myself. I want to cook for my spouse tho cuz for me personally it's kind of sweet. That's just for me tho obv. My issue is I'm so scared of making mistakes I don't try and it's frustrating and messy
ReplyThe thing is I want to , not the cleaning part but the cooking and the ironing. Cooking and ironing cuz i think they're basic skills+ cooking also cuz I think it's a cute act of service. I also loves kids so I'm an in between cuz there's some supposed housewife stuff I like and I'm okay with but some I don't cuz i suck at it + I'd rather do something else tbh . Appreciate your input, good to know I'm not alone lol
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