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Why am I getting yelled at by my gf for not being able to make her feel better
She feels lonely and her depression is getting bad
And I'm to blame?
I've done everything to try to make her feel better taking care of the house, taking care of her and the pets, offering to make her some of her favorite food, being engaging and holding conversations to my best ability with someone who isn't replying back, playing games she wants me to play with her
All of that?
Nothing
She's telling me I'm making her feel alone by sitting here
That I'm not doing enough
When I'm doing everything I can
What else can I do
It's as if she expects me to be a mindreader
I know she's depressed and doesn't have medication so she can't help how she feels
But it only makes me feel worse when she blames me for these feelings despite me making an active effort
I can't express these feelings to her since she'll simply say I'm making it about myself and now she'll feel like she has to take care of me instead of me taking care of her
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Hey dude we appreciate what you are doing for her. You're doing your best , she's just in a really sucky place and we'll it's most prob making her hate this world. Just bare with some patience and I'm sure when her depression gets better she will rlly appreciate what you did.
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