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He's an alcoholic and coke User.
He can't go one day without drinking.
At first I didn't notice because he behaved differently and was affectionate.
He started to change the way he treats me. He has put me down whenever he can.
He calls me the most horrible names bitch, can't, ect and has even said he would rather fuck my friends to hurt me.
When I bring up what he says he blames it on being drunk.
He says he needs me, that I'm the woman he wants kids and a life with but then treats me like shit.
I have gotten into a argument with my family over him and even my friends tell me to leave him.
Maybe I felt that if I was with him and helped him he would change.
We moved in together, I pay half the rent and have been paying for the internet.
I had even been gone for 3 months to help my family and still payed half our rent.
For the short time we've been together, I've been in more pain, than feeling loved.
He always blames me for everything and says everything is my fault that I'm the toxic one. He can't take any accountability, and wherever he has mentioned his ex's it's always the same story and they were the terrible ones.
If I could I would leave today, what keeps me is my name is on the lease too.
I wouldn't wish this on anyone, he seems like such a loving guy, likes to act like he's educated because be has his masters in social work. He likes to use that to put me down.
He has gotten me arrested, when he was drunk he told me that he had cut himself so that the wouldn't take him.
He always says the he'll make sure that he's not the one getting taken and has told me that he knew that I shouldn't of gotten arrested.
I'm not the only girlfriend he has gotten arrested, when I found out I didn't know what to think.
He makes me act irrational, he knows exactly what to say to get me to react and then proceeds to call me crazy and starts to video record me but if I were to to the same he makes me delete any proof I have of the fight.
He has pushed me and strangled me and everything we get in to a fight he says that he's going to get me arrested again.
All I do nowadays is cry.
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I understand how hard it can be to deal with an alcoholic or addict in general, it’s very hard and they make you feel like you’re the problem. My bf of 17 years is an alcoholic then my son is an addict. As caregivers we try our best to support and help them while it tears us apart and down. The first and most important thing to do that I’ve learned and learning is your wellbeing and happiness is priority and has to come first. I’m learning to set boundaries and not allow them to cross my boundary no matter what they call me or say to me. We know all the bad things that they’re saying are not true even though it hurts like hell. Then we second guess ourselves and that’s what they’re trying to make us do. Set some goals and boundaries for yourself, talk with someone that can help guide you, give you tools and help you stay strong and grow because you deserve to be respected.
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What you described is not healthy.
ReplyThey say a drunk person speaks with a sober mind. He is your enemy so leave now before you are a domestic victim.
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