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I was at peace for a long period when suddenly he got me with a simple message "Hi." And it was the start of a relationship that road to the commitment. I am aware that he was committed before and until now because there's a bridge still and forever connect between them, a child. I'm blind with it and I accepted everything about him, although I know in the future it makes me more hurtful and will get an uneasy path if I will continue the journey with him that I choose. "I LOVE HIM" that's how i feel and I will embrace everything. I am very proud to tell everybody that he is my partner, even in my family, I fight my love for him until they said "as long as you're happy".
I get a new job and we decided to be together, he support me financially and emotionally. After I get my first salary, he start saying that we gonna split the expenses and never talked to me. We've been in a relationship for almost 3 years and just a month that we've been together changed everything. I might do a mistake or he spent a lot of money after I moved in his house. He just silent and always sighed.
His promise always forgotten and thrown away in the neverland. I choose him because I saw that he is responsible and can handle the problem that in the future we might have face if we live together.
I keep asking him if he's angry or I did something wrong, "Nothing and No". I tried to still keep holding on for our relationship although my heart keeps hurting silently.
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If he won't talk to you at all ask him what is wrong with him and if he won't answer leave him. You can't be in a relationship where there is no communication.
ReplyI agree with a comment by someone else - communication is key in a committed relationship. However it seems that it will need to be you to help improve the communication between the 2 of you. There are sites online that will give you guidance, otherwise the 2 of you could consider couple's counseling, or trying a different approach such as taking a leisure class together, or volunteering together, or having date nights on a regular basis. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus.
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