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As a girl, I've always been to shy to make the first move on a guy. I've always just thought, "Oh, if he wanted to he would" or "he's probably not the one" or "he doesn't feel the same." But damn, there's this guy at work and I just... I don't know... I just want to know everything about him. I didn't really find him attractive at first so I don't know how it happened but I just... I'm a very shy person and usually never approach a guy first yet found myself approaching him and initiating a conversation first. He's really nice. But now I don't know how to tell him I have a crush on him without making it weird because we work together. Not only that but I'm scared of rejection. I can't tell if he likes me back or is just nice. The first time I approached him, I was a nervous mess which I know he noticed. And afterwards I was too shy to follow up but he came up to me and started a conversation. I'm probably reading too much into it. All I know is this is one person I can't just walk away from and let my feelings go away on their own.
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Don't have a romance with anyone at work because everyone else finds out and will gossip about you and him and because when you break up you will still work together and see each other every day.
ReplyI don’t know enough about relationships. But I think you can invite him to a coffee or to hangout. You know… to get an idea whether if he likes you back. Just an idea okay… I’ve also heard that girls don’t get rejected as much as boys when they make the first move. So whatever you’re going to do… hope it works:) good luck. Hope he’s the one for you.
ReplyGirl, I've been there. If you really don't want to tell him, but want him to know, then make it obvious that you like him. Subtly touch his hand, or compliment him often. Make him ask you first. Also, if he finds out and you do get rejected, don't worry about it. If he didn't want you, he wasn't the one for you.
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