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i have a boyfriend, but we are doing long distance. (we have been arguing a lot too).
i have a boyfriend, but i have to keep him hidden from my strict parents.
i'm 17. i can't tell my parents about him. they'll kill me.
i want a boyfriend. someone my parents know and are fond of.
i want a boyfriend. one without distance.
whom i can hug, surprise me with flowers, hold hands with, and go on dates with.
i want a boyfriend. so that i can experience true love in person.
i want a boyfriend :(
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What are the chances of you meeting that guy more regularly?
Replythis year september (40% chance), or next year (70). but me and him have been arguing a lot. i dont know if we will still even be together :/
Replyit's really difficult to maintain a long distance relationship. you should have a long and deep talk to him about the situation.
ReplyI can not relate to you more.
As someone with strict parents, I dated people online without them knowing as well.
I am 17 and last November all I wanted was a boyfriend that my parents knew and I could live in the same life with. I couldn't do the double life anymore and I told my boyfriend at the time that I was having second thoughts. We had been together for over a year by then and I loved him more than life itself. But he was starting to get angry- like scary angry with me. All I could think about is: would he treat me worse if we were in person? It was a hard decision, probably the hardest I have ever made in my short life, and I decided to break up with him. I left the online world and my parents never found out.
Its June now and I am still single, but I have to admit that I am much happier than before. It took some time to get better, but the outcome was worth it. I realized we never hung out, never kissed, never did things together. All we did was talk cause it was online. I realize I didnt want that. I know some day Ill meet the right guy who I can be true to.
But that doesnt stop me from wanting him now.
Think about it this way: You want a boyfriend, but is this the boyfriend you want.
Is it the life you want.
If you guys do meet, eventually your parents will find out. How will you resolve it? Can you bear breaking their heart? Imagine your child doing that to you. I am not saying you SHOULD break up, but think about it.
As someone who is going through the aftermath of this kind of situation, I am confident to say I am healthier, happier, and much more stable than before and I would rather have a boyfriend who I can have be my boyfriend than a guy I keep a secret.
I hope everything works out. I love you <3
Replyomggg girlll wanna be friends? ^^
Replyomg yes
ReplyI don't know but in my case I was having true feelings for a girl whom I never met ( she was in school and left at ukg then met at Instagram and I was like talking to her and got feelings and she was also giving hints and then I initiated and proposed her after that day I only cried she never replied me.on time . Left me on sent and the girl who talked to me day and night was like who are you. Don't know what you think of making boyfriend whom you can meet ofcourse we have to meet but till then online also things can work if someone wants
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