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I don't think relationships are for me...no matter what, I do mistakes and sometimes my partner and that feel good about it and yourself in the relationship fades out.
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She used to think about be as an ideal partner she wanted. Now I have dissapointed her so many times that I believe I am not that anymore for her.
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Disappointed her how? Try to fix it! Women are cool!
Replyhey! it is okay to make mistakes. but it is not okay to keep repeating them. whatever you have done, understand it and learn from it. if she does not see your effort, then she is not the right one. she may have left because of those mistakes, but if she really loved you she would stay to fix things. do not blame yourself. it did not end only because of you. give yourself a break, because you are a human too. its okay. take some time to become better, and love yourself a lot. good luck.
ReplyInstead of assuming things, just try to have a talk with her. Make sure you both have the time and energy to listen to each other. Couple counseling can be a great option too. Good luck!
ReplyIn my humble opinion, timing is everything in everything. Romantic relationships when you're young, living with parents or don't have a career, employable skills - when any of the former and latter scenarios apply to you then romantic relationships are like a ride at an amusement park. Safety first and enjoy it while it lasts. Eventually you will meet people who have mindset of long term, committed relationships who want legal marriage and possibly a family, which legal marriage is the best structure for children and having a family. But for now, enjoy "the amusement park". I hope this helps.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus, when we change our minds and our actions.
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