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I wish my girlfriend would actually listen when I told her something she does hurts me. Physically hurts me.
I have a birthmark where the skin is discoloured and noticeably thinner on said patch on skin. It severely hurts when she grabs it. I've told her time and time again to NOT do this and yet she keeps doing it. She'll typically laugh at me when I flinch, promise to not do it again. Only to do it again a couple days later.
I really wish she would stop.
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ReplyObviously she thinks it's comical. Try one more time - sit down with her and tell her it's a serious request, that it's one of your boundaries - that she not joke about it since it truly causes physical pain. If she still at that point does not respect your boundaries then it might be time to reconsider where the committed relationship is headed. I hope this helps.
Courtesy notice: the following includes a reference to a book that contains writings over 2000 years old which are mostly parables about human nature, both vile human nature as well as moral human nature, parables that are meant to teach us to learn and grow, including the teachings of Christ Jesus. No religion required, and better yet: no public displays of devotion required, although the former and latter are admirable if practiced freely out of one's own free will and without the threat of being beheaded. Some bullies will label this "trolling", so "change the channel" now if of no interest to you.
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus, when we change our minds and our actions.
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