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Seems like a wasted life and I don't think it's going to get better.
3 months ago · 2 · Need advise, +3
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I just can’t believe what a huge loser I am, I am 25, never had a girlfriend, never been kissed, worse I have always been rejected and made fun of for the way I look. I tried my level best dressing well, being well educated and being fit. But it just feels like a huge waste, what kind of loser has zero relationships when 25 and I don’t see this changing anytime.
Just feels like a huge waste of time, damn I just wish I wasn’t born this way. Even kids younger than have everything, great relationship and happy life. Embarrassing
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I wish I had some magical good advice, but some parts of life just suck.
Try to fill the rest of it with good things, it will help.
Hang in there!
ReplyYou won’t want someone replying to you with a load of generic cliches that you’re not a loser and it’s not embarrassing etc because when you’re in the kind of situation that you are, stuff like that is meaningless and unhelpful.
But I will say it’s not a waste being fit (you need good health for you not anyone else) or being educated or well dressed, those all have benefits for you alone and are nothing to do with having a partner.
I’m not good looking either, by a long way, and I went through school and workplaces being bullied for that and other reasons. I never recovered my self esteem or confidence and I ended up getting involved with the worst kinds of people because no one else would give me the time of day. As you can imagine that caused a whole other set of problems instead of giving me back any friendships or social contacts. I’m nearly twice your age and still have no friends even now and no successful relationships.
I believe things happen for a reason even if we’re not meant to know what that reason is. It could be that your life being single is not actually bad but is preventing something much worse from happening. Wish I had the answers and solution for you unfortunately I don’t but wanted to tell you that it’s not just you there’s many of us in solidarity
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