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I started seeing this guy, and it’s been going great. He’s a really funny, kindhearted, cool guy. We talk everyday, and have been since the end of June, he and I had the exclusive talk on our third date. After our third date, we have been having to push around our fourth date because his schedule has gotten really busy. We planned to meet this past Tuesday, but Monday after texting me good morning, he just didn’t say anything that whole day. Or Tuesday. Or today. I’m really confused. I don’t think he’s ghosting, I think something happened and he just hasn’t been up to talking about it? I’m really not sure.
I texted yesterday to see if he was still coming, no reply. Asked if everything was okay, and if he was okay, no reply. Then I texted today just to tell him good morning and that I was thinking about him. I still like him a lot, and I really hope he’s okay; but am I being weird or stupid?
My best friend also was being really weird with me when I talked about my anxiety. I experience things very intensely because of my OCD, and I know I have to work on that. I’m trying so hard to be understanding that he probably has something going on, and he just needs his space to come to me. But she kind of frustrates me because I know her criticisms are valid, but sometimes I just need her to listen.
So, I’m going to let him just come to me, and I really hope everything is okay.
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I hope that you're doing well, As well as him, from what I read he's a good person and he just needs space, I do that when I am busy as well so I get why you're thinking that; best thing you can do is wait and I think he's worth it, I can see you really care about him. :)
ReplyI agree with the other comment but I have a couple of questions. Throughout the dates did he seem interested in you? Did he act excited for the next dates? Did you flirt a lot?
He sounds amazing and you SHOULD let him come to you, but don't be too surprised if he doesn't answer.
ReplyHe has always been really excited, and every time he has to cancel, he is quick to reschedule for another time and doesn’t leave me hanging. Very flirty and excited, and we have great banter :)
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