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Worst thing after breakup that i have to lie that we are still together
2 weeks ago · 1 · Stress, +3
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After the breakup, my colleagues who knew I was in a relationship still ask about us. They often ask when " you are going to meet your boyfriend?".
I lied saying we met when you came to see my mom when she had surgery.
I cut communication with some good friends who know about us so that they can not ask about us. I can not face them.
One day when I was so sad, that It was visible on my face, someone asked me what happened, I said nothing just stomachache.
And one day my colleague asked who my best friend I said I had the same person as my boyfriend and best friend.
They did not know I had a breakup. And I do not want to tell this to them, I don't want them to show sympathy, give life lessons, and make fun of me.
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I think you are making it hard for yourself by lying to them .. if you tell them that ooh we just broke up (say it casually) and if they try asking what happened? Just tell them that I don't really want to talk about it ...that will be wayy wayy better than living a lie and living in fear that what if they found I was lying? And don't you think you are letting this single thing ruin your life ? You literally cut of your close friends just because you broke up with someone... no real friends would ever make fun of anyone for breaking up ... forget about real friends , I don't think any person who is sane would never do such thing ... so try getting over it and be truthful to atleast yourself because living a lie won't help to move on ... hope you'll understand what am trying to convey ( don't surround your life around that breakup , you are way more than that )
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