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I‘m a 19-year old girl and I met up with a 43-year old men a few days ago.. (it was the 3rd time we met) - and we hugged and he kissed my neck and grabbed my waist.. I liked it. He likes me.
Is it bad that we met? Or is it okay lmao😭
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It isn't necessarily bad because you are both adults. But you shouldn't be actively looking for men his age. If you really like him, go for it. But just saying men of that age can lead teens into bad places.
ReplyIf he's a nice guy who is considerate of your feelings and needs, then hey it doesn't matter if the dude is 105. Like the other commenter said, you're both adults. I think the only tricky part is since he's older he probably knows the ropes and can manipulate you. Like, he's had 20+ years of experience. Just be sure you're not being manipulated or used, that doesn't end well.
ReplyI’m gonna be honest, I’m 21, in a guy, and I think it’s weird.
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ReplyI have Daddy issues too, but in a total different way. I ended up sleeping with my father and I’m a sophomore. My post is the In a Predicament.
As for you, I don’t think it is wrong at all. Age is just a number and as long as he treats you well and makes you happy then why should his age matter? Just be careful that’s all, but then again you need to be careful with anyone these days. I wish you the best of luck and you will know whats right, just follow your heart. Just be sure to take off the blinders so you can see things you would normally overlook.
ReplyOf course he likes you, you're nineteen. But if you can get over the smell of nonenal, go for it.
ReplyOk so I would say ... that's a big age gap .. at his age he could even have his youngest kid older than you ..
And I don't think at 19 we develop that much of understanding.... we are barely figuring out adult life and learning how to deal with the world .. so it might be hard for you to understand if he actually likes you or is only taking advantage of you ... and tbh its kinda creepy ... if you were in your late 20s or older then it would have been more normal ... because atleast by that time you have seen things and get a grip of how people actually are.. but at 19 I don't think most of us has that Mental capacity.. and it's actually easier to persuade someone younger into doing things they wouldn't be doing in the normal circumstances and I'll just say it's easier to manipulate younger ones ...
So if you are trying to protect yourself then you should stop seeing him ... because no sane 45 year would want to date someone that younger because it's totally creepy ...
If you are only looking for hookups then maybe you could do that but again still be more careful... because your safety comes first
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