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Hi i need your true opinions
I was dating a guy who lost his job after few weeks of us dating and then he had been trying everywhere but was just facing rejections. All this time when he wasnt giving me time and attention I was being understanding and supporting in everything. Now its been 2 months and he is still jobless, he is like he had never had this bad phase in his life, and he thinks there is something he is doing wrong and its a God's sign or universe telling him he is doing something wrong in his life. Directly indirectly it pointed at me. He is breaking up with me.
And i am so heartbroken right now. I get it it must be frustrating and exhausting. I havent uttered a word against his opinion but I have been continuously crying I cant get hold of my emotions. I am like can i be too unlucky for someone. I really cant think it through. Somebody please help. I really love him
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honestly? I think that if he thinks that becuz of his failure it means that he cant love you then he doesnt deserve you. If you are really meant to be together, then he will realize his mistakes and come back to you. If not then well i dont know what to say. sry if this wasnt helpful
ReplyHe could be somehow blaming you because he can't get a job. Be happy that you aren't still with him.
ReplyPlease take what I say at face value, I don't mean any harm or ill will but respectfully, instead of living him, love yourself more. I don't believe the universe tells you anything, if anything I think the universe always gives people problems and it is you as a person who can make the difference. Either you take what life gives and make the most of it, if not improve it or you rot and let it get worse. The issue is he clearly chose the latter. I understand in this economy and in this job market it is difficult to find a job, but he himself should put in the effort and if he loved you truly then he could make finding a job and being with you worth it. Don't mind it much, let it pass, you can get over it and do better. If you want to express any feelings by all means feel free to email me @dresnan.castrro13@gmail.com
ReplyThat's absurd, well he's just looking for someone to blame for his mishaps and he saw you. Please don't let other people trampled your confidence because they can't build one for themeselves.
Why would be say's it's a sign from GOD? God is love, if it's not love it's not from GOD.
It migth be a blessings in disguise for you. Leave him be and be a better person love. Fighting!
Replyare you clingy? is he putting your needs before his way too much? do you motivate him? do you give lazy vibes?
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