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I feel like men are better at everything. They're stronger. They're better at every single sport in existence, including non-physical games like chess. Men also dominate the right end of the IQ curve. They're far more likely to be geniuses and have slightly higher average IQs. Men have been responsible for 99% of all human accomplishment. There are no great female composers or philosophers, and the recipients for the top mathematical and scientific awards have all been men.
It seems that everything we can do, men do infinitely better. Men are even better at feminine activities like knitting and cooking. All the top chefs are men.
What were we given? I'm honestly so depressed because I tried to find anything that we as a sex do better aside from giving birth, but I just couldn't. Every single one of our supposed strengths are incredibly frivolous, minor, and subjective. Why does it matter if we're slightly more flexible? That does nothing to negate male superiority in every sport ever invented. Who cares that we see more colors? Men have higher average IQs, better visuospatial abilities, are more likely to be geniuses, and dominate the most abstract fields of study. Meanwhile, we have no cognitive advantages that make us desirable for any academic field. I've been told that we're better at social skills, but I don't get any of those benefits because I was born with Asperger's Syndrome. If there are any "good parts" of being a woman, then I'm not seeing them.
Men are even better at raising kids than we are. According to several studies, kids raised by single fathers are better off than those raised by single mothers.
I don't understand why nature made us so inferior. We've been so useless in the progression of the human race that I can't understand why anyone takes pride in being female. It's such a cruel fate to have almost no purpose in life aside from reproduction. Everybody hates us and seems to admire men and their qualities way more. The majority of geniuses will always be men. All of the strongest people will always be men. All of the most talented people will always be men. If we'll never be strong, smart, or talented, then what's the point in living at all? I've thought about blowing my useless girl brains out with a shotgun, but that's just a fantasy. I would never actually kill myself.
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So I’m male but like, I don’t feel that way about women. I’d also caution about the IQ thing that, there are a lot of ways to be smart, and intelligence is not a one dimensional thing you can measure. I mean, okay, for instance, you can calculate how much energy it takes to boil a gallon of water, and if you know how much energy you get out of burning a specific type of wood, you could figure out how much wood you need to boil a certain amount of water. But, how much intelligence do you need to prove Euler’s identity? How much intelligence do you need to paint the Mona Lisa? How come one guy can paint the Mona Lisa but can’t prove Euler’s identity but another guy can prove Euler’s identity but can’t paint the Mona Lisa? That and IQ measurement has a history of cultural bias and it was used to justify some pretty messed up stuff historically (eugenics / genocide). People who think of IQ as the end all and be all usually are being intellectually dishonest and have some ideological agenda they’re pushing.
ReplyReally, IQ is just a number that is an attempt to approximate something that’s too complex to be approximated with one number. I’d argue that if you care about intelligence, forget about IQ. There are things you can do to make yourself smarter. You can learn a new language, you can learn a new skill, you can study something, you can invent something. But I’d also argue that you don’t want to be smart at everything, you want to be smart at a particular thing that provides you with value. And there’s this cultural idea that some people are smart and some people aren’t smart and you have to be smart to do certain things. But that’s not true. So two example: biology and computers. In nature, the most complex machine that exists is you. The level of complexity of the molecules inside your cells and all the interactions that happen in trillions of them at the same time to keep you alive is more complex than anything humans have ever invented. But nobody designed you. You evolved. And evolution is simply a process of trial and error. Some mutations are beneficial some aren’t, that’s it. So you don’t need intelligence to create a complex system that works. You only need trial and error and an objective measure of whether the change that you made got you closer to your goal or not. And in computer science, there’s this idea of the Turing machine. It’s the idea of a universal machine (basically a computer but as a theoretical concept before we had the capability to actually build computers). The idea is, if you have a Turing complete machine meaning it can execute a set of instructions that will let you do whatever arithmetic you want, and you have unlimited memory (in the form of binary stored a tape - of course now it’s not in modern computers but that’s not the point) and infinite time, you can solve any computationally solvable problem. If you’re half as slow it just takes you twice as long, but it doesn’t place any upper limit on what you can accomplish. So you shouldn’t worry about how smart you are. I don’t think you are less smart than I am, but even if you were, so what? Work on something I’m not working on and you’ll still beat me.
ReplyIQ isn't the whole picture. General intelligence tests show the same pattern: men on the top, women on the bottom. Here's one study: https://repub.eur.nl/pub/99534
Here's another: https://arts.units.it/retrieve/b83d3703-73ef-4e86-af8a-46cee702b6ac/DelGiudice_Gangestad_2023_Commentary_Harrison_pre_v4.pdf
And another: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16248939/
Face it: we're useless to human development. I hope we can be replaced with artificial wombs so we don't have to stuck on this planet as intellectual and physical inferiors.
ReplyYou need therapy. It’s not normal to go digging through the internet to look for reasons to hate yourself. If you looked as hard for studies saying women are smarter you’d be able to come up with a list of links saying the opposite thing just as easily. Just citing random studies without context doesn’t mean anything.
ReplyMaybe you’ll be happier if you stop actively looking for reasons to make you unhappy.
ReplyI'm not trying to look for reasons to make myself unhappy. I just can't deny reality. Men can do all the things we can, but they can do them better. Traditionally feminine activities like cooking all have men at the top. We can't even be the best at what we've done for thousands of years. There's nothing I can point to and say 'women are needed for that task' aside from giving birth, which even animals can do (it'll be negated by the artificial womb, too). They're even better at raising children (single fathers outperform single mothers; they don't need us at all). Men are brainier, stronger, and, to add insult to injury, better at being women than we ever were. Of course. They always excel at everything. We excel at nothing except sex. We have nothing to offer to the world, and I don't understand how women failed stumble upon one evolutionary advantage in their long, long history. But we have nothing. Men do everything important, while we're just the vessels with no other purpose than to give birth. 99% of all human accomplishment is the product of men; we're useless. People always claim that women's contributions can't be measured or quantified, but that's because they don't actually exist. Female sports and female education are both complete wastes of money, time, and resources that would be better spent on more capable and more intelligent males.
ReplyNever ever feel bad about being a woman. No one should ever talk down or negatively about women for being women. Women are extremely powerful, beautiful and more loving. Men do a lot of things, but they don't care about any of that stuff as much as they care about being in love with a beautiful woman. The humanity of a woman is much more valuable than any tangible item or any kind of skill. Women are just as capable as men in many areas.
ReplyAnd women don't clog up all the prisons of the world.
ReplyI hate feminine traits because they contribute nothing to society. They make us weak and useless. I don't care about "emotional intelligence," whatever that means (I'm not even sure that exists, to be honest). Men have superior spatial abilities, have a far higher likelihood of being geniuses, have brains infinitely more suitable for creative or original thinking, and are responsible for 99% of all advancements in science, mathematics, philosophy, art, music, and politics. Masculinity and maleness is clearly superior in every sense of the word. This is why people naturally hate femininity.
ReplyI’m a black guy, so I’m not a woman, so my life experience is different. But some people don’t like me because they think I’m worse than they are for being black. If someone says I’m inferior, that person will always be my enemy because I’m loyal to myself. You can say what you want about studies or statistics or whatever, but the external world, even how we were born, we didn’t decide that. I didn’t decide to be a black male, you didn’t decide to be a woman. I thought about it and I realized that, in the past I would come up with excuses and reasons for why racism is stupid because I have the same ability as other people. But then I realized, even if I didn’t, I’m only going to live once, and I want to be successful. So it doesn’t really matter what the truth is. Even if I was objectively inferior, I would still fight someone who is superior to me who believes that I am inferior because that belief does not make them beneficial to my own existence. What you really need isn’t someone to tell you why women are as good or better than men, what you need is self respect.
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