Frustrated

After being with my ex for five years, it has been a rough year, and not for the reasons people would think. I am very much over him. He cheated on me, held knives to my throat, and said some of the worst things you could think of to a person. I finally was strong enough to leave him. And weak enough to go back when I wasn't sure how to live my life. While I have it all together now, what I want now is for people to stop giving me updates on him and one of the girls he cheated on with me, with whom he stayed with. Oddly enough not the one he got pregnant. I don't give a rat's donkey that his life has been falling apart and he has gotten into drugs. I don't want to know he has had multiple pregnancy scares, and you almost hit him because he was driving terribly. I don't honestly care. I have moved on.... Why can't the people around me? This is the same guy the kidnapped my dog and kicked me out of the house multiple nights regardless of weather to lock me. You guys didn't believe me before, but you do now, but you still feel the need to update me on his life. Please, just stop. I am over it, but that fear still comes into play that he could find me and hurt me physically again. All you do is bring up a beaten in fear. I'm happy. I am healthy, I have moved on and I live life with a smile again. I know people say that them brining it up shouldn't matter if I am over it... But you don't understand the sheer terror I lived with day to day. Wondering if today was going to be the day he made good on his threat to kill me. So please.... Stop like I have asked you so many times.