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I'm a fresh grad from a university.
Before I took my board exam this last October 2017, I had a problem.
My father doesn't like the guy i love the most. This guy is my first love and will always be my true love. I first saw him in school when we we're in highschool. He's 3rd year student and I'm 1st yr student. First, i hate him so much because he's so talkative and always wants attention. We were in the same club in highschool. Mathematics club. We became partners that time until we broke up when I was a 1st yr college student. Our relationship took 3.5yrs and it ended because of the other girl. That girl was his seatmate in college. (We went on different university). He broke up with me right after I took our final exam and it was his birthday. My family didn't know about this because they don't want me to have a boyfriend while studying. That break up was one of the lowest point of my life. I even please him to come back to me but that girl and him became partners.
Moving on with him, i felt angry.
Why? Because he promised that he will never leave me no matter what.
2 years passed. He came back to me.
I accepted him. I let him meet my family.
But the problem is that, during our swimming with his family, my father came and picked me up and sent me home without even explaining what's happening. When I went home my mom said that my father doesn't like him for me because of the looks. It shattered me. Looks? Why does it matter? Is it more important? I don't get it. My mom and dad told me that I must not see him. I must end my communication with him. I'm so depressed. I disobeyed them. I can't do the things they want me to do. I really love him.
I'm so depressed to the point that I can't focus anymore on my review for board exam. It affects me so much.
The result of my board exam came this November and I failed!!!
I'm so devastated. I'm so depressed.
I want to be happy! I want to be my old self again :( I failed!
I'm torn between working or to continue my self review up to May 2018 to take the board again.
I wish my father will accept him. It really affects me. :( I don't know how will my father accept him :(
Any advice? :(
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First of all, they don’t like him cause the split up and get back together. They probably feel that he’s toying you and making you loose focus. Look- it is your life. You take a deep breath and stop thinking and bringing stress to yourself. You obviously love your father. You care about his opinion. Your parents only wants what is best. However, you be with anyone you wish to be with. You are an adult. If this man is someone you really love that truly in your heart treats you right and respectfully. Look at his actions. your dad can probably see it or knows of it. For real, is your dad always going to be there making all your decisions? No. If this guy is someone you truly want and love- do what you think is right. However, stressing yourself out because your dad doesn’t like him isn’t your problem. If this guy you love knows you are stressing, he would try and reason or sit down and talk with your father. Also, you have to know just because they don’t get along now does not mean its written in stone. A lot of parents realize they can not control forever. Do not stress yourself out and be in control of what you know you can do. Take that test and you rock it! You seem strong and caring with a big heart. Don’t let those thoughts overwhelm you. At this point focus on yourself and do your best.
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