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Why does my boyfriend not like getting intimate with me?
6 years ago · 5 · Relationship Issues, +9
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my boyfriend and i are young (20 and (24) and so we should be at our prime of intimacy, but he wont. and its taking a large impact on me. my self esteem is low my anxiety is high , im super depressed all the time, and the only crappy advice people give me is to talk to him, and i have believe me , but he doesnt like to "talk about my feeling, i have none " thats always he response and i dont wonna feel like im nagging him for intimacy. i dont feel like anyone should have to ask for their partners to be intamit its sort of a given in relationships. lately i feel more like his best friend that holds his hand and gets an accational kiss. i feel ugly and fat and disgusting. im in constant craving of intimacy and physical love because he would rather do anything else. it wasnt always like this . before we actual started dating we were doing it sometimes twice in one night. he use to look at me with hunger in his eyes , the type that to this day still makes me blush. but that seems almost a life time ago. i havent seen a look like that since. and it hurts man...... it really does...
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ReplyIt sounds harsh but it's possible that he's not as interested as he used to be but is too afraid to tell you about it. If he's your boyfriend it's not fair for him to avoid talking about feelings especially when you're asking him and he knows it's important to you. You can have a happy relationship if you're unable to share feelings with each other.
More importantly you can't let him make you feel ugly and disgusting! I'm sure you are neither of those things, and if being with him is making you feel like that you should seriously think about whether he should be your boyfriend or not. A boyfriend should make you feel beautiful and positive about yourself.
A good place to start might be to ask yourself what you currently get out of this relationship? If you find that some things are missing, try to think about if there's anyway they can be fixed? If not, then I think maybe you know what to do.
ReplyGiven his life situation, is it possible that he's depressed?
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