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Why do I make a fool out of myself with this guy? I care about him so much, I want him so much... We used to be so close, but then he changed, his life changed, his everything changed... And we are not that close anymore. I wanted to force out from him if he still likes me, and I'm doing this for about 2 weeks now, on and off, and I think he just got so angry with me and annoyed I don't think he will ever reply me. He always said he can't answer it right now. That he's got million problems to think about and solve them. I never understood why someone wouldn't know whether he likes someone or not. I always believed this is as simple it is. Even if he liked me, now I think he definitely wants me out of his life because even if I'm supernice to him, at one point we are always at the same question "how do you feel" and he always avoid answering that.
I know he has problems, end of story. Why I'm trying to force love out of people...?
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dont force it then. maybe you should leave him. thats way you dont hurt yourself anymore.
ReplyYeah I know I hurt myself with it. But I just don't know how to stop. I always think about him. If I wouldn't be this stupid maybe our relationship were better. I'm even annoying myself. I'm just a disaster. Overloving, overcaring, overstupid if these words even exist.
Replybabe i was in such a similar situation and one day i just sat and cried for hours on end... i felt os fucking pathetic all of the fucking time due to loving him and not being loved in return.. he treated me like shit and i would justify the fuck out of his actions and accept apologies that were never given, just because i loved him. but then one day, one glorious fucking day i just thought about how much i hated myself and how the love i was giving him was actually the love and care i myself needed. so, i went for a run. and i do not run. but i just ran, and i had the hottest shower with a new shampoo i bought because i wanted to fucking buy it. then i listened to music and drew a landscape seascape thing and just kept myself busy with things id always wanted to do for myself. i painted, i swam, i sang, i drove to strange places, i met new people and i just lived for myself. it took me so fucking long to get to that place. but life is so crazy and unfair and sometimes cruel. but it is also the most greatest gift. you need to do things you want to do. you have to stop any contact and trust me its so hard to but you have toputthe phone down and just go on an adventure. talk to your closest friend or familymember about something you've always wanted to do. just start a conversation about what happiness is to them. start a blog. fuck it kiddo, you've got to love yourself. wake up early in the morning and go for a walk just because you can. no excuses. don't make excuses. be your own hero because nobody is picking you up from the pavement. you can't be dependent on anyone. this is your life and they are just a part of it ok.
ReplyThanks, your reply means so much to me! I really have to, and I want to grow personally, so I'll try my best to focus more on myself. I guess there are so many things out there. Thanks for the motivation❤️
ReplyYou are not forcing people out of love. You are looking for an answer, the one you deserve. Stay strong
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