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Do I tell my wife the truth?
I need to heal. I need to be in a better place. I don't know how to get there without hurting the person I've been married to for years first. I don't know...
I'm here because helping others with their problems makes my own seem lighter. I hope by helping others, I can somehow help myself.
ReplyIm struggling to let my one way relationship go, it's crazy.. he is not good for me as he wants this to work on his terms, ie; ill ring you when i want, ill come to you when im feeling good...
Im hurting? I know he is selfish but i love him..? I bloody love him but im not happy, i know im not happy.. my struggle is letting him go
ReplyDo not go back to him. Him wanting things to go back on "his terms" means the relationship will be completely out of pity. In saying those things he's subconsciously revealing his true intention of saying them: hoping that you'll say no because you don't want to deal with it. Give him what he wants. I know this is hard to think about right now, but this is what you want too. You want better than this. You want someone who loves you unconditionally, unlike this guy.
In terms of the struggle in letting him go, it's supposed to be hard. Take consolation in knowing that the reason it's so hard is because you deeply cared and gave you everything you had. That feeling not being reciprocated anymore is a horrible, horrible feeling. Here's the thing though. You will get through this. I can say that with certainty, because I have been where you are. And I'm over it. Time will heal this wound. You will be whole again, without him in your life. You can do it. I promise you. Stay strong and fight on. The best is yet to come.
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