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I just needed to get this off my chest. To you, my almost boyfriend... our story is a complicated one, yes. But I just can’t stand the lies anymore. You don’t owe me the truth, but I wish for it all the same. If you’re seeing someone else, it’s fine. Just be honest about it. I can’t take the half truths, the omitted truths... if we’re really cool or on our way to being cool, then can you at least be honest with me? It would help me move on way faster if you didn’t keep lying and didn’t keep giving me these mixed signals. It’s already bad enough that I can’t be honest with our mutual friends about what happened. Those friends are my childhood friends, and I hate lying to them... I’m just so tired of lies. I want truth.
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just ditchh them if u think theyre not being honest
ReplyI wish I could but, it’s a small community and we’re all tight knit friends. I don’t want to cause a scene or start any drama.
Replythen dont sleep with this person or hang out with them alone anymore! never be afraid to leave an unhealthy situation bc you are afraid of what your friends would think.
Reply"Almost boyfriend"? That doesn't make any sense. Why "almost partner"? Either you guys where exclusive boyfriend and girlfriend or not. There shouldn't be in between or potentially boyfriend unless you were just dating for a short amount of time. Perhaps, you expected something more out of the relationship in which he didn't agree on. I'm sure there's more to it than that. You can't ask why he's see someone else and lying to you if you were only dating. Based what you wrote nothing that was stated that you both were exclusive.
Don't worry about your friends, they would be the ones living with the consequences. Maybe not date and see this person anymore. I do wonder if this guy you're seeing had already been in a commited relationship, before he dragged you in. You need to be careful what kind of man you're letting into your life and try not be niave or gullible about it.
Can't build a relationship without trust and honesty, trust me. It wouldn't work and by the looks of it, this guy doesn't seem worth the emotional torment of not knowing the truth. If he cared about you, he won't play games with you mentally and emotionally.
Forget about your friends at this point. It's the person that YOU'RE dating, not your friends. Deal with him quickly and don't hesitate any longer with being lead on by some guy who can't take you seriously.
You make the choice and face whatever comes with it in the end. So choose wisely on what you want to do about it.
ReplySeeking closure is healthy, but usually that just never materializes. I've been in a similar situation, and the only thing that made sense was avoiding that toxic person. Time away from them made me see who they really were from a different perspective. He'll always send mixed signals when he can get away with it if he's a narcissistic arse. Ignore those, fight them! The hardest part is lying to your longtime friends. Not cool, but life is complicated for most of us and you got this!
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