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I’m friends with this one person, and I’m starting to really like them. But I can’t, I don’t want to, because I don’t want to ruin the friendship. Also my mental health is improving a lot and I don’t want to go back to feeling worthless and unwanted and useless. But i can’t help it, I’ve tried ignoring him but i can’t do it. I miss him so much when he’s not here, and I’m pretty sure he knows I like him, and he doesn’t say anything, hes still talking and joking and playing around with me like normal. He’s me rejecting me, but he’s also not hinting at how he feels.
So how do I do it? How do I stop my heart from getting so happy when he’s around? How do I just stop?
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ReplyI wouldn't know as there isn't anyone I like that way.
ReplyHonestly, in the number of times I have been in this situation I have learnt the best you can do is accept those feelings (I know easier said than done), don't dismiss them and force yourself to not feel this way, and eventually, with time it will pass. I know it's super cliche but that's always helped me in that situation.
ReplyI think if you don't want to like them then you should stay away from them. It will be really really hard for you in the beginning but I think it'd be best. Stay away and enjoy your life. Spend time with family friends and don't think ill about yourself. Stay around positive people and value yourself.
ReplyI am in this same exact position. I have this friend names Quinn and he's perfect. I can't avoid him because he's a friend, a good friend, I've known him for years. I'm assuming it's the same with you. There is no way to stop the feeling you get, and sometime's happiness is the most terrifying thing you can feel. Happiness has a weird way of building you up to your highest point and then dragging you down, and there's no way to stop it. Just allow yourself to be happy. I ask myself the question that you're asking every single day. You can't, that's what sucks, you just have to be happy, no matter how scary that is. <3 stay strong
ReplyI experienced the same. I feel you. I have a friend and he is really close to me. We chatted everyday, he commented on every of my post on instagram, then never tired of making joking to me every time we met. Then suddenly I fall in love with him because I love the way he treat me. But then he doesn't have any feeling toward me. I never confessed to him because I thought he likes me too. But I was wrong. He confessed to my best friend. Yes. My best friend. It really hurts me!!!! Then I moved on even though its hard. I trued to find someone else and confessed to him. And it works to make me move on and having a good relationship now.
ReplyDo things you're not used to doing. I know it's hard as hell but as soon as you start getting out of a routine, you'll start focusing more on other things. Treat yourself more often. And when YOU feel ready, just go for it.
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