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Why do friends who don't put in half an effort still matter to me? Why do their exclusions and posts with your mutual friends still hurt? I have put in the effort I could, we were so close for a short time and grew apart naturally, which is ok...so why does it hurt? I don't understand it at all. I want so badly to get over it but I can't...because I care. Despite friends not showing care for ME, I still care for THEM. Do they deserve my time and effort? No, probably not...yet I still get wrapped up asking myself the WHYs. Why wasn't I invited. Why is she close to her and not me. Why won't she make plans with me and prioritize them? What did I do?....What...did...I...do...
That one is the real kicker. But in reality I know I probably didn't do anything. Whenever we DO talk its great, lots of love, lots of fun. We just don't talk as much. Maybe I'm paranoid, but I know I'm not the only person who's felt this way...I just sometimes wish people would put in as much as they take....or ask how you are when it's been a while.
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