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I'm thinking of killing myself but then i'm really scared of what's going to happen in the afterlife because i was brought up by religious parents and so i think i would suffer harsher consequences in the after life rather than right now so i'm scared to kill myself. My state is really bad. I don't have any friends anymore, very very insecure and everyone treats you like garbage when they find out that you don't have enough likes on instagram or that you're not pretty enough. I'm so sick of this world. Everyone feels so sorry for me. My family and everyone. I'm such a bad daughter, sister, student, person and everything else. Thats what people think of me. I'm lazy and annoying to people. Everyone is too harsh. I can't do this anymore.
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Please, stay and talk to me. I’m here for you. I’ll hear you out and I’ll try and help and give you the support you need. I know how you feel and how tough it is. I’ve been there. But please, talk to me instead of ending your life.
ReplyIt’s just that there is so much stress going on in my life and I don’t know how to handle them and my mind is so negative about everything like I always think about how I’m not going to go to university, that I don’t deserve anything good to happen to me or that I will never find new friends again because I’m such a bad person. Sometimes when I go out with my mates or something I just feel so much pressure from the outside world that everyone is judging me and that I’m different than those people and sometimes it really gets to me I just burst out crying when I come back home. I’m so sensitive and I overthink stuff and it makes me feel like I’m not worthy. This is why I hate feeling like this 24/7 I feel like I’m suffering I hate it so much I just want to kill myself sometimes to stop all of this.
ReplyI know exactly how you feel. What I can definitely say is this: you can learn how to be more comfortable out and about with your friends. And everything else like confidence and thinking better about yourself. It’s not going to change overnight, but if you work on it and make a decent effort, then you’ll be able to get to where you want to be. And if you do, then one day you’ll feel so good about yourself. I promise. It takes time and all, but it’s really worth it.
ReplyBut how can I start?
ReplyMaybe start by doing little things that you know will help you in the long run. But start off small because if you throw yourself into something completely outside of your comfort zone and have a bad experience, then it’ll make you scared of trying things outside your comfort zone again. So, like I said, start off small.
ReplyMaybe you are just still a little young but so you know, you are living in hell right now. Heaven and Hell is only a state of mind. By the sound of your Hell its not escapable. Change your mind set and forget what doesnt matter! What really really doesnt matter! And you will see that in no time you will start to feel better because your focusing on reality! But like i said you are still young!
ReplyI am still young and my mind is crazy and I’m not mature and the way I think about everything is so negative even people don’t want to talk to me sometimes. Thank u for taking ur time to reply to me it really means a lot.
ReplyI've been there as well. I actually did attempt to kill myself but not all failures are a bad thing, and I am your living proof! ^-^ Now look, the truth is, we don't REALLY know what's out there after death (whether there be an afterlife or not). NO ONE knows that side 100% but this shouldn't be your main focus on life, and obviously nor should death yet.
Your main focus should be living it to the fullest for YOU, and for nobody else. It should be finding love, laughter, joy, connections and REAL friendship, as well as familyship and etcetera. It should be looking at the bigger picture and recognizing that it doesn't matter what other people think of you, but instead about you being YOURSELF (:
If you did the wrong things in life, people would judge, if you at least did average, people would judge, and even if you did what was right, they would still have something to say. But this is just because there will always be haters out there. You know what else though? There actually are nice people out there too just as much as the negative ones, we're just not always able to see it. But it's there, THEY'RE there.
And another thing is, when I tried to commit suicide it was an awful feeling. The moment was so bad that when my life flashed before my eyes, none of it was good stuff, up until the very end... When I recalled my family always being there for me, for birthdays and school activities, i remember being a kid again, them telling me they loved me, all sorts of sweet savory stuff. Then after that, I began to see the future, the impact it would take if I went through with it; my mom and grandma walking in seeing me like that. I just couldn't do it.
And although I may never know what the heck type of experience that was, whether it be God, me just snapping out of it, no more cloudy judgement from the blindfolds of depression, or whatever else it could've been, it happened regardless.
I was awaken and reborn, given the gift of sharing my story with others to help save another life, the next being more meaningful than the other. It's the butterfly effect for sure. Again we cannot describe it, and that is very much a part of our reality. But still, it's a beautiful encounter to get to be a part of <3 Cuz if I had taken my life that night, I wouldn't be here almost 6 years later, sharing the good news with you, that it DOES get better!
I assume you live in North America and (i can be wrong but if you do) this country is a place of awful competition, but that doesn't mean that YOU have to live it that way. Never compare yourself to others if you want to be happy and emotionally healthy (; We're all different and we move at our own unique pace.
Instagram and social media should not be the highlight of your life, it should be stuff like digging straight into that new toy without taking a picture if it first, or wearing the latest fashion without recording yourself in it and seeing what other people think when you bought it for yourself, or LIVING the moment instead of watching it through your phone, or whatever kids my age are doing right now lol
Don't worry about who has more hits, hearts, likes, comments, reactions, etc. and just be the real you, NO FILTER! 💕
Who's to say those popular and famous social media people have a perfect life outaide of the interenet? Who's to say that they really are who they claim to be? Who cares if people feel sorry for you? Some people can feel sorry for me, and i wont let that get to MY feelings anymore. I dont feel sorry for mySELF lol in fact I've finally learned to LOVE myself, because I don't care what people think of me nomore, at least not if it's something bad 😂
Good luck, I hope this helps! ^=^
ReplyThank you. It did help. I’m glad people like you exist and btw I live in London lol the pressure is really bad there and I’m glad u turned your life around. It’s so hard for me to live because I feel like I have a monster in my head that’s talking to me and affecting how I live my life. I just think negative thoughts the whole time and it’s so exhausting.. and I want that to stop.
ReplyLet me tell you something; you will suffer your worst moments in life over and over again in Hell should you take your own life. But right now, I need you to acknowledge something: what you're going through is a trial. It's not your first and it won't be your last. God will continue to place trials before you until you're ready to rejoin him in Heaven. And remember, he won't put you through any trial he knows you won't survive. Meaning: he knows you can beat this. If you trust him, you WILL get through this.
ReplyThank you for taking ur time to reply to me it actually means a lot but I am still wondering about if god is real or not I don’t know what to believe.
ReplyIt's quite possible that we may never know /: HOWEVER, that is again kind of a part of the beautiful thing. Not all things in life are easily describable, but if we knew it all, what fun would it be anymore? In fact it is already proven that smart people get bored easily lol
Plus I personally don't go for any certain or specific religion. I simply believe what I want until proven wrong. For example, I didn't used to think that Jesus Christ was an actual guy. I figured people made him up, until his blanket was found in that cave or whatever. And thats another thing; science isn't my strong suit but I do at least know that it's incredibly helpful. Like how the only way they knew that blanket belonged to Jesus was through long ancestral traces of DNA.
I think Noah's Arc was found too, so as of right now, I believe that many stories are told similarly throughout religions and that God is real and (at least in MY eyes) he DOES exist, but "he" isn't actually a he, for God is not human at all, and is viewed (in my opinion) as a strong and powerful BEING, that (for some reason in MY mind) surrounds the all of the universe.
Then again, religion is a very sensative and controversial topic that we have to watch out for here on Novni 😅
ReplyYour brain looks for all paths in life. Your heart knows the best paths. And your soul has a map for the true path.
Just believe in yourself and trust in the being who gave you your soul, who gave you the map. I have faith you'll pull through this all the way. Have some in yourself. I'll being praying for me and you tonight. But mostly you. ;)
I love you. So keep your chin up. <3
ReplyI'll be your friend, if you need anything just talk to me. Don't end your life, I know things gets hard and all you want its not to live in this World but GO to Jesus Christ He loves you, he will never judge you and in your hardest moments he will be the person holding your hands and giving you the happiness and support and acceptance that you want and need. When other people abandon you and try to bring you down he will lift you up and you will rise again more stronger than before. He will give you strength and LOVE... You don't have to do this alone. Talk to God and he will listen wait patiently for him and he will hear you out.
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