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No one ever chooses me first. not my mom.. not my friends.. not the love of my life.. i dont even get it. no one listens to me.. i dont even know what i do so wrong.. bc there is nothing i wouldnt do for any of them.. im so alone and no one even realizes how much i really struggle and im convinced no one will even comment on this.
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Hi there! I think i understand your struggle. But i cant say for sure because i dont know you personally. Apparently a lot of people struggle with this feeling of being no ones first choice. I hadn't realized this, i thought i was the only one who felt that i was no ones go-to. Just know you aren't alone and hopefully that gives you a bit of comfort . (ღˇ◡ˇღ)
Sending love, good luck <3
ReplyI think you put everyone else in your life before you. The only person you can be the first choice for is you. Try and put your needs and wants before other people and see how much better it makes you feel. I'm not saying that you need to stop caring about other people. I asking you to care about yourself just as much as you care about other people.
Remind yourself that you are also a person and that you matter too!
Replyi agree completely this is exactly what i decided to do and i felt much much better. putting myself first and getting out of that friendship of following them around like a dog really helped me. i think it can help us all.
Replyyou give really good advice. (。◝‿◜。)
ReplyI totally get how you feel.
Replyi struggle with this a lot. my advice, curated from years of experience, is as follows: focus on you. work on loving yourself before you consider how the rest of the world receives you. if you don't believe, deep down, that you deserve to be put first, you won't be. you can't choose family, but you can certainly choose friends. if they aren't putting you first, drop them and find some new ones. it can be hard, but i promise it's worth it in the long run. keeping them around is like admitting to yourself that you don't believe that you deserve better.
it all starts with you. good luck with it, beautiful!
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