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How difficult is to go through every day with the fear that u might fail again.. what if u could not succeed.. seeing ur peers doing things n getting somewhere n finding urself to be completely lost sucks.. everyone's expectations.. n their lack of understanding of what u r going through is hell.. how to stop worrying n work harder .. what if I could never achieve anything n ended up in a big pile of crap.. it's scary ..
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These are thoughts I struggle with everyday too. It is scary. The thing is no matter how hard I try there will always be someone who does it better. There will always be someone who does more. There will always be someone who has it all.
So now I just try to remember that I only need to be the best version of myself. That doesn't really help though honestly. It doesn't change the fact that I still want to be better than all and have it all. So while I tell myself that its okay to be who ever I am I can't help but hold on to hope and try to reach for the stars.
If I try, its a game of chance, I might make it or I might not. If I don't try, I definitely won't make it.
I hope this helps in some way.
ReplyI think at some point everyone has these thoughts.... however, we still have to keep fighting. If you never try, you never know. Also don't focus on the bad side - what if you actually DO succeed? You're working hard, so you can achieve success. If there's someone better than you don't worry - you also worked hard and that doesn't mean you aren't successful. You can always try harder next time and surpass others step by step.
ReplyIt is hard to get out of that hole we often fall in. But Ive been there too. It is hard, but you have have to be strong and choose everyday to do your very best to achieve ur goals. O focused for a long time trying to find an answer for everything that happened to me until i realized, It was in the past. I had that feeling "what If ive made a different decision at that time?" Hoping that my present would instantly Change... But it wont. We can choose now where to be in the Future and do whatever It takes to get there. Believe in urself brother!
ReplyI can relate to every single bit of this so much. My fear of failure has been and is limiting me from being the person I know I am capable of becoming. Everyone seems to be working towards a goal and are achieved it and then there’s u. It feels like everyone’s just flying on top of me and I’m struggling to breathe let alone fly. Just wanna make myself feel like I am someone in this universe and not just a useless slop. I once read a quote where it said “don’t compare your chapter 1 with someone’s chapter 25”
ReplyThanks all.. means a lot knowing someone actually understands n u r not alone..
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