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My house at the moment isn't very pleasant at the moment, my dad is an asshole it's just how he is. He's verbally abusive to my mom but she's to afraid to speak up otherwise she fears he will get violent, I want them to split I can't deal with my father, people who didn't have fathers growing up, I wish I could be like them honestly. Me and my mom would be so much happier. I wish he was dead, my father was always verbally abusive to my mom and me, my mom is miserable with him. He's a pathetic person all round. He ruins my life in so many ways and I'm just fed up with everything he does and what he has put me and my mom through. This house is miserable and every emotion in this house is depressing. I hate him.
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I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. What you are struggling with everyday. Be strong. You can get through this.You are so brave! You might need someone's support. Do you think you can talk to a relative or family friend who might help out?
ReplyI'm so sorry you and your mom have to go through these hard and emotionally straining times. You guys don't deserve to be abused like that. Ever.
My dad was like that too; verbally abusive, strict, always screaming at me for the smallest things. I hated him and at one point I wished he was gone too. So I get why you would say that. Seeing the man that is supposed to be there for you and be like your best pal is hurting you and your beloved mom. It hurts, feels confusing, and feels horrible. I understand.
I really advise you to get help from a relative or any other close loved ones you can confide in and trust. Talk to them about what has been happening. If you are in school, a school counselor is a good option as well. I really hope you and your mom will survive through these hard moments.
I am not siding with your dad, verbal abuse is never right. However, maybe he acts that way because that's how he grew up in his family? He could have been abused himself and learned to treat his own wife and kids like that. I feel like if he agrees to see a therapist or counselor and try to stop his verbal abuse and let go of any scars he has been holding, he may be able to stop his hurtful actions and words.
You're strong. You and your mom can survive this. I really, really hope and wish your situation will get better. Good luck.
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