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It's been a week since you asked me to be your girlfriend, but yet it feels like I'm still single. I always text you first so that you don't forget that I'm here, but today I have stressed that I wouldn't. Just to see if you think about me as much as I think about you. I understand that we're both busy due to finals and us being college students, but is it possible for you to take 10 seconds out of your day to text me good morning or good night? It kind of hurts, because you make me so sad over text but when we meet in person I feel like I'm on a cloud. All you have to do is hold my hand and everything else disappears. I know we will see each other tomorrow (hopefully) before we go to winter break, and I don't know if I should bring up these feelings. What if I'm being too clingy? I feel like you lost feelings for me but then I remember you asked me out, and also told me you had feelings for me and how you would never ghost me. But were those words real? Or were they just what you knew I wanted to hear? I hate how you can make me so happy but also so sad at the same time. I also hate the fact that I can't stare in your eyes without falling in love. I'm not in love yet, but I know that I'm falling for you. And it honestly sucks, because I have never fallen in love with someone and if I do fall for you, It's going to hurt like hell.
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It sounds like you need to communicate with your partner. Also, It sounds as if you fear rejection, but if this person truly does want to be with you, having a sit down and talking about it will help bring you the answers you seek. You're not clingy, partnerships require communication and these thoughts you're having should be spoken to your partner. If this is the right person for you, they will be glad you're upfront and honest with them. Transparency will help lessen the uncertainty.
ReplyYes I agree, with the other comment - well said. Also though, ideally ,it would be a case of ….text and text back - more or less with symmetry. If he only does it - when you ASK him to do it, there is still the niggling question of would he do it due to his OWN MOtIVATION and feelings...do you know what I mean ? It's a tough one....I guess nothing can be completely equal....Does he text you first at other times of day with loving texts'?
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