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What’s the best way to move on from a breakup? It’s been close to 5 months since we split and I still feel very strongly about him.
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Coming out of a relationship is always rough obviously! It's normal to still have feelings, and you just need to give yourself time. Also try to be accountable to yourself and don't catch yourself thinking about him romantically, and try to always focus on your own goals, hobbies, interests, etc. Good luck hope this helped a little
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ReplyI still love my ex bf although we broke up 5 YEARS ago xD
Step 1:
Don't be like me xD
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Take up some hobby, join some clubs.You will meet new people.
It's okay to still have feelings for that guy, it's all still fresh.
You are not worthless, and remember:everyone is replaceable even your ex boyfriend.
You may think now:Oh, I will never find anyone better than him, he was the best option for me!.
NO!He became past now, you will meet someone better than him, maybe not today, maybe not this year, but one day for sure!
And besides, it's sometimes better to be alone, you can learn sth new about yourself and see how much have you changed.
You should give yourself some time to be alone.
And Happy new year😊
ReplyThat's a tough situation. I know it hurts, and it doesn't help to hear a stranger tell you it will get better. I walked away from that someone special. Every day since I think about him, I miss him. It led me to someone I loved even more, who I eventually also lost. I think about them every day, sometimes I wish I could go back and love them the way I should've but deep down I know, it wouldn't have helped and we would have been miserable. Someday the right one will come along and take you away from all the pain you feel now. It seems hard to believe, but if you have the capacity to care about that guy this much, I'm sure you will find the right one some day, you deserve it.
Wishing you the best!
The Dragon
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