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• BirdNerd · 4 years ago

  People can be so insensitive about stuff like that. As far as I know, I am not infertile but I am getting up there in age and haven't met anyone to start a family with...so I see the dwindling time I have and I feel it extra hard when people say insensitive comments. Perhaps you were someone who just didn't want to have kids? Its none of anyone's business and we should respect other people's privacy and decisions.

  Just know that while some people view children as the only reason for life, there are tons of childless people out in the world making a difference, creating art, exploring, dreaming... Its beautiful and that's what matters. I wish you so much joy and love. ❤

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• Bio32 · 4 years ago

  I'm so sorry people are being unkind and insensitive towards you. There are so many reasons why someone of any age or gender is not married or having a family and none of those reasons are anyone's business. We are all whole on our own and we don't need a partner or a certain lifestyle or children to be whole and acceptable. I'm sure it not only feels invasive, but they don't know they are poking at a very tender subject for you and I'm sorry you have to go through that. It would feel very cruel if I were on the receiving end of that and in your position. I hope you can find more people around you who can support you and accept you for what your life looks like now rather than making you feel less than or bringing up a painful subject for you. Much love to you!

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• Novni Guest · 4 years ago

  That's awful. I'm sorry that has happened to you. People say the dumbest things.

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