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It has been 2 days since I told my best friends that my mom confiscated my phone because she caught me staying up late. That was a lie, I am actually spending my time on social media or for sleep or to write down about how I feel. I didn't want to talk to anyone. I just want some alone time to think since I am going through something right now.
I didn't want to tell them that. I lied to them because I don't want to be a burden, I know that they have their own problems, I don't want to add up to the list of things they are thinking about before they sleep. I know they're going to be worried when I tell them the truth.
There's also a part of me that doesn't want to tell them the things happening to me because it's kinda personal. You prolly thinking that, hey they're your best friends you could trust them. I have trust issues because of the past and I am not very good at keeping friendships. But at the same time I feel guilty for not telling them.
What should I do?
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Heyy if you feel like telling them will help u feel better, u should go ahead and tell them . Don't consider yourself a burden . Just as you have been there for them, they will be there for you too. Friends are there to support each other. Never consider yourself a burden. However if u prefer to handle it alone, take some space and enjoy your own company. They will understand this too . Whatever it is, don't consider yourself a burden and stay strong!
ReplyTruth is like the sun, you can block it out but it wont go away.
Yep yep, that was the first thing I thought. But if you have trust issues then I can understand the difficulty.
So ask yourself a few questions. Why would your friend be worried about you? If its because they genuinely care about your wellbeing then that's something to take into consideration. Why is it hard to trust them with the truth? If the answer involves a previous person or persons that are no longer a part of the equation then you owe it to this friend to give them the benefit of the doubt. Last question, does this problem affect your friend. If it does, itd be good to sort it as a team.
I can tell you care about them. Understand that the feeling is mutual. They care too and they'd want a chance to help. That's what friends do. If you can ask us anons for advice, then I'm sure you can gather the courage to trust this friend.
These are crazy times, it's easier to get through it with a helping hand
ReplyYou should tell them the truth as soon as possible so that you don't feel guilty. Just tell them the reason you said your mum took your phone was because you needed some time alone.
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