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I've seen it happen over and over again. I get a crush on a girl ask her out and before we can go out some other guy swoops in. Before I know it. She is pregnant with this other guys kid. He abuses her then comes to be pregnant and wanting me to pick up the pieces but then they get mad at me when I refuse to date someone who's having a kid with someone else.
I mean is it wrong that I don't want to be the father of someone else kids. I'll be your friend but I'm not gonna be the father of someone else's kids. I have better things to do.
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ReplyI did I asked her out then the lock down happened. I did not wanna get her sick or anyone in my family sick so I stayed home. She said she was doing the same but I guess she went and got some while staying home or invited that guy over
ReplyYup it’s okay to not be the father of someone else’s kids but if you want her, like really want her then you would accept her kid but you don’t. I would take this as a sign that’s she’s definitely not for you and that someone better will move into your life.
ReplyOf course it's okay! You're totally right no one can have control on what you like or you don't !
ReplyYoung man... women everywhere repeatedly fall for the "bad boy" that treats them like sh*t; it's a paradox (contradiction that makes you shake your head and think "WTF?"). Any who... a child is a huuuuuuuuuge responsibility. They get sick, they need to be fed all the time for 18 years; when they're first born they wake up at midnight, then every 2 hours crying... you need to pay for child care if you and the mother work...you need to help them with homework from age 5 through 18... it is a huuuuuuuuuge commitment and not recommended in my humble for any man under age 40, and that's if the child is his.
In my humble opinion: there is nothing wrong with you NOT wanting to be responsible for someone else's child, especially if the mother got pregnant from some "bad boy". Sometimes a woman wants to party and have fun with the "bad boy" and then have the "nice guy" take care of them. And they have been known to go out and party alone while they leave the "nice guy" at home with the child, so beware. Hopefully she's looking into filing for legal child support from the father.
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