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Unexpectedly I've found myself in a long distance emotional affair with a married man. We both know its wrong, for so many reasons. Before we realised what was happening, it was too late, we could not deny this strong connection and pull towards each other. Cannot deny how much both our lives have improved since meeting online over a year ago. The synchronicities of our lives are overwhelmingly more than mere coincidences. We ignited the spark within each other and cannot even begin to explain this bond we have. When we talk, we both feel electrified and consumed that sometimes its hard to even speak, to put two words together and this feeling keeps getting stronger as the months go by. I'm in love with him as much as he is with me. The uniqueness of our situation is by far, the most confusing thing we have ever come across. We talk for hours everyday about everything and anything. And for as f**ked up as it seems, given the circumstances, I help him with his wife, giving advice where appropriate to help him fix his marriage. He gives me advice to help me with my partner.
Moment after moment. Day after day. There is no end game. We acknowledge how hard it is to love someone who is not yours to love but at the end of the day, we just enjoy each others existence.
Its as simple and as complicated as that!
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ReplyAs long as you aren't cheating on your partners.
ReplyI suspect your partner and your co-conspirator's wife are having an emotional affair also; "For in a long distance relationship, all four intoxicated from the wine take a sip."
I would avoid escalating this into adultery; things never end well once adultery is committed.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”
ReplyPeople like you are reason why families fall apart. Do hell with your emotional connection and fuck your connection at first place. Do you know what will happen to children of that married man? Even if you helped that man's wife you're still a sick creature. You're destroying the bloodline of that family and that foolish man! That man should rot in hell. The children are the ones who suffer whose dreams of normal family are destroyed and they see hell pure hell in their lives. I'm suffering coz of woman like you and man like that. My family is shattered into pieces because of your "love is pure" sHit. You're cheaters and you deserve nothing but the curse of those kids whose lives would be destroyed.
ReplyFirstly there is no children involved and secondly, I understand that your circumstances must be extremely hard to deal with. In no way is your situation comparably to mine tho. We live 10,000 miles apart in opposite countries. We have no intention of ever meeting. We are very much like glorified guidance councillors to each other. You do not know anything about this friendship. You do not know, that his wife cheated on him, several times. He has tried to leave but she threatens him with self harm. So he stay there, unhappy, in a loveless marriage. He has lost himself over the years and spiralled into depression accepting that this is the way it will always be. Then we met online. I have re-sparked feelings in him, that he has long since lost and is a better person for it. Even things with his wife are improving, because of the connection we share across the ocean. The same he has done for me. Re-sparked my self worth to be able to be strong and help me deal with my partners emotional mental abuse. Both our lives have improved for the better. Not one person is hurting because of this. Please do not judge what you do not know. I wish you all the best to move on from what you have experienced.
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