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Hello fellow readers, I actually don’t think it matters, but I’m a female.
Recently I’ve noticed, that I’m very attracted to smart guys…and I mean like very, very smart.(Like IQ 182 smart)
Unfortunately, I’m also attracted to guys with slight sociopathic behavior. I know that it shouldn’t be romanticized and if you’re asking yourself; „What ‚guys‘ does she mean?“
Well, the ones I am referring to are fictional, which doesn’t make it better I know, but don’t judge.
I think many of you know the show criminal minds? (You’ll probably know where this is leading)
There is a character named Dr. Spencer Reid and there’s just something about him…(before you all come for me, I noticed that I am more attracted to intelligent people in real life as well)
And with ‚slight sociopathic behavior‘ I mean the character Tom Riddle from Harry Potter.
I haven’t really met someone like that in real life, so I can’t really say much about it.
Now my question for you:
What does that make me? Weird? Creepy? Strange?
Hope you have a good day :)
(Also English isn’t my first language, so sorry for any mistakes I made)
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Um, it doesn’t make you strange at all. That’s just your preference and what you personally find attractive.
Replyyou're fine don't worry about it. I think Reid and Tom Riddle are hot as well lol, everyone finds different things attractive. As long as youre not hurting others irl and not hurting yourself irl its fine:)
ReplyWell, it means you're idealistic. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. I might suggest getting to know your personality type. You sound as though you're more attracted to someone who is kind of emotionally detached from life and gears more towards a factual outlook.
That isn't necessarily bad. There absolutely are guys out there who are like that. They don't really emotionally invest into anything, they just kinda go with the flow.
If you do choose to look into personality typing and what not, you'll probably find that you are almost certainly an introvert. At least that's how you come off to me anyways.
And if nothing else, understanding personality types can give you an outside reason to attach to that style of personality. If I were to make a guess, it sounds like you're pretty common. Probably an INFJ that seeks an INTP/INTJ leaning more heavily towards INTJ.
INTJ males tend to be more "work with their hands" and don't generally invest a whole lot of emotion into things. This can give them a sociopathic look, but in reality it's just who they are. There's nothing mentally wrong about it, it's just offputting to some people like myself who value emotional input.
But anyways, go give it a look see. There's tons of info and opinions and if you use social media, it's a fairly popular topic.
ReplyThank you! This really helped me:)
ReplyWell, I mean.. not going to say Tom Riddle isn't hot or anything lol
ReplyI think we've all had a crush on Spencer Reid haha. Everyone finds themselves drawn to certain traits people have and it's completely normal. Hope you have a good day too!
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