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I'm overwhelmed! I'm confused, stressed, anxious, scared. I'm grieving!
I'm just 16, I just started going to highschool, I lost my mother more that a year ago. I feel so lost without her. She was the closest person to me.
School is bad, I'm just so stressed about everything and I know that I shouldn't stress this much, but I do. And mom isn't here to help me. And all I need is help. I just want to hug her, see her, hear her. Nobody understands what I'm feeling and nobody cares.
My friends don't even ask me if I'm okay. When it was mom's first death anniversary nobody even texted me.
I hate school and I hate life and I don't know what to do! I'm not living I'm just existing. Every week I hate my life I just wait for the weekend because at least then I can relax and distract myself while sitting in my phone all day.
If someone else also feels like this I'm sorry, nobody should feel like this, not even me, but I don't know what to do, I just don't know.
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I've been there too
what to do, is usually different for everyone
what's important is that you want to stop feeling that way
you'll eventually find what works for you
I can't tell you exactly, what to do, because it's different for everyone, but I can say that it passes.
even if it doesn't see that way now. it passes, it ends and after it does you'll forget about it
ReplyI can't even imagine the agony you're going through right now .. I'm so sorry about your mom. I just want you to know that even though some people don't show that they care about you but deep down they love you. Losing a close one is never easy, but you need to believe in yourself. That no matter what happens you'll keep moving forward in life. Things will start to get better but you need to have patience. You have your whole life ahead of you and even though your mom is not physically there with you but she will forever look upon you and wish for you to succeed.
You should try to distract yourself. you should go for drives, sit in the sun, look at the stars, watch the sunset, everyday write a reason why you are thankful to be alive. Enjoy your own company, make new friends if possible. Try to make yourself content, do not wait for anyone else to do that for you.
I hope I've helped you not feel so defeated. ;))
ReplyThank you!
ReplyFirst off those aren't your real friends to not even care about this tragic life experience your facing. I know it's heartbreaking to lose someone so close to you especially at a young age such as yourself. Baby, life is hard enough without losing a loved one. I'm truly sorry for your loss. But trust and believe me she is looking down at you smiling because of the strong woman she made. When ever you feel lonely just pray. If you don't pray then just have a normal conversation with her. I talk to my loved ones everyday. They can hear you. Your mother would not want to hear you talking like you hate your life. She wants to see you graduate and become the woman your meant to be. Memories is something that no one can take away from you. Your mom loved you very much and if you ask me i think you was blessed to even have a mom, some kids don't even get that privilege. God bless and good luck throughout high school. YOU GOT THIS!!! YOUR STRONGER THAN YOU THINK!!!
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