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So I’m in a friend group of 3 people, including me, and of course we have other friends, it’s just that if I were to hang out with one of them, I would include the other person in our group of 3. I got my drivers license recently, neither of them have theirs yet, so they are constantly asking me to take them out for dinner, lunch, coffee, etc. But I just don’t feel the need to go out and buy food all the time. It’s costly, plus I have good food at home. This morning I woke up to a bunch of texts about going out to dinner tonight (in the groupchat on imessage), So I texted back, “is there a restaurant you guys want”, something like that. They ignored me. A while later, in late afternoon, I texted again, do you guys still want to go out for dinner. Instead of answering my question they dodged it and said lets go to brunch tomorrow. First of all, I hate brunch. They want to go to the diner and they know I don’t like the diner… So I didn’t really answer them since I was still debating, because I did want to see them tomorrow. Also, I have a ton of work tomorrow, so today would have been more ideal in seeing them. Anyway, we all share a life 360, and I found out that they were both at a party together tonight. Thats why they wouldn’t answer me about dinner plans. and thats why they were ignoring me. Now I don’t even want to take them anywhere tomorrow. To top it all off, i could see the exact time they got home, and not even a few minutes later they were texting me about the plan for tomorrow. One of my friends kept spam texting me my name and facetiming me.
I just don’t know what to do.This was kind of rude in my opinion. Am I being too sensitive? I normally would go out of my way and pause my work to go out with them because its fun sometimes, but I just dont want to see them tomorrow. I havent answered them about plans… I just dont know..
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That is rude in my opinion. I'm sorry but from what i've read they're just using you
ReplyYeah, I was thinking that too. Thanks for the help.
ReplyI agree, it is rude. It's shady and they don't seem genuine. Sometimes, having bad people around is not worth the fun or seemingly "good times".
ReplyYeah I agree. Okay, thank you!
Replyjust bcz they hang out with u doesnt mean they will be ur frd in need (im talking generally)
maybe they found u easy...n just wanted to hav fun
according to me its okay if u treat them the same they did to u once in a while n if they dont get back to u.....then they dont deserve you
they r not good to u (im sry if this hurt ur feelings)
i hope u get wt im trying to say
ReplyIf they didn't invite you to the party you should find other friends. They are using you. Do what you need to do in your life first and only fit them in if it's convenient to you. They aren't good friends.
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