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Dear rockstar,
You just had to send me that friend request, didn’t you?!?! I’ve been in a relationship for over a year now, we live together, but I always catch myself thinking of you. And now you want to send me a friend request after you’re the one that wanted to cut our “friendship” off and blocked me on everything. And a couple months ago when I seen you at school, you were even in one of my classes and all I wanted to do was talk, maybe hug, but no because you had a girlfriend at the time. Why do we keep playing this game of tag. You sent me that friend request, but no text, no nothing. All I want to do is talk to you. And I know writing this is horrible because the fact I’m in a relationship, but I just keep thinking about what could’ve been… we were so perfect together; never fought, stayed up all night and talked and laughed; it was never a boring moment with you. We dated for a month freshman year and the truth is the reason I broke us off was I wasn’t ready for a relationship. I knew how much I loved you and I knew how serious i wanted our relationship to be, but me at the time just wasn't ready for all that. And that letter.. you gave it to me the day I was gonna break it off, an hour before actually. “A love letter to you”.. I wish I never threw it away because it was the most sweetest, meaningful thing anyone has ever done for me. I’m so glad we stayed friends up until the summer of junior year when our friendship ended. As time passed I just kept telling myself you were no good, just a toxic part of my life. But in my heart I know that’s not true. There’s a reason why you sent that request and I know it’s because you miss me. You really have my head screwed up right now all because of that stupid stupid friend request which I accepted by the way because I want you to see how I’m doing and see my new life. But everything you see isn’t always true. I want to talk to you as the friend I had. And I guess on here is definitely better than actually texting you cause I guess that’s considered cheating. I don’t know if I’m happy and I don’t want to hurt anyone including myself by making a wrong choice. I know I love my boyfriend but I’m not sure if we’re right for each other. I like staying up all night talking and laughing and watching movies, going out to places; while he’s more of stay at home stay on the game all night maybe watch something. He’s not exactly a romantic type, with me at least and I don’t know why. I’m not gonna lie he’s done so much for me and still is but is it too much that sometimes I just want flowers or maybe a movie night where I get to pick the movie, or just some help cleaning our room. I don’t know sometimes I feel like we just kinda got stuck together because the situation that happened which is way too long for me to add in here, but did he just settle for me and if that’s the case do I owe it to him because of how much he’s done for me to just settle for him. And I know what people are gonna say if you’re not happy then leave but it’s for real not that easy. What if I’m wrong what if I’m just as my bf says “tripping”. All I know is this needed to come out and I really need advice I have nobody to talk to about this stuff since I have no friends and the only family I have likes to judge so please give it to me straight.
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honestly, Im not the best at giving advice but ill try. btw your gunna be hearing this from a 13 year old.
Ok listen, I had this same situation LOTS of times. I know it's hard but trust me. eventually you will get over it. But for now, just try to live your life, don't focus on him, your even lucky you have a boyfriend. Lots of mine just left me for no reason or lied to me saying they lost hope when they really left me for another girl. so your one of the lucky ones. I'd say just focus on your life and whats to come to you in the future. Give that boy one month to reach to you, if he doesnt, block him on every social media, don't waste your time on him he aint worth it sis. Do something YOU like and do it for YOU. Maybe even change your style if you want. And yea just live your live and forget about him. Becasue in the future when you think about your gunna be like "wtf that was some stupid shit". Just forget about him <3
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