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I have a gay friend and I used to flirt with him all the time just to tease him and be annoying as a joke but uh.... I don't know if it's a joke anymore. I realized that whenever he gets shy from my teasing, I like it a bit too much. Too much to be considered "normal". You know what I mean??? I've recently been thinking about him in ways that I haven't before.... I kind of want to touch him but that's all, maybe not actually sleep with him. I don't know. Now that I think about it maybe I would sleep with him... I think I would to be honest. This is weird. I want to say more but I feel strange thinking about him like this and I don't want to get... nsfw (which I know I will if I keep writing about him *cringe*). I've always thought I was 100% straight. I know I like girls but do I like boys too? Im so confused about everything now. This is weird I don't like it
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Try to think about it without any fear of it being true attached. You might realise its not for you or maybe it will feel right. But you're gonna have to face it at some point, it's a bit of a weird thing to start feeling suddenly but you can't help how you feel and its not gonna go away and it doesn't mean anything has to change about who you are as a person, you don't have to suddenly get all the flags and learn all about the lgbt community. Maybe watch some films or TV series with gay charachters, see how you feel. Dunno if that's good advice but it's what I did and I learned a lot about myself.
ReplyYeah, and getting hung up on labels...labels are descriptive, not informative mostly.... So there's that
Replyyou prolly ain't sweetie
ReplyAt the end of the day - you'll figure it out. And keep in mind it's no one's business how you get your rocks off but your own. Also - it doesn't matter if you're gay or straight - promiscuous raunchy sex is what leads to STDs and low self-esteem. Find love.
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ReplyWe can be attracted to a person and not the gender. I am a gay man however I did fall in love and was very attracted to a woman a few years back. This is the only woman I have ever thought about that way and have ever been involved with. It did bring to light some things that I had never thought of before.
I am attracted to men, I find men sexually appealing. however it is possible for me to set that aside and fall for people that don't fit what i am usually attracted to.
the realisation is that sexual attraction (as well as a lot of other aspects of our lives) is fluid. It can change for 1 specific person or it can evolve and change during the state of our lives.
My advice would be to be honest with yourself about how it makes you feel and if its something you wanna pursue then talk to your friend. Just be sure that its what you want.
it could also be possible that the flirting has just trickled into a 'what if' that could also have a negative impact on your friendship which is why i advis to be honest with yourself and really think about it
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