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I have a best friend, we had meet last year and became friends real quick as we both were new students. Me and her did everything EVERYTHING together. We even make plans and hang out! Last year out friendship was great and everything is just going on smoothly. However this year, she started to get depression, anxiety ,ADHD and some stuff. Now sure if she is faking it but eh. Out friendship kinda got a little well ermm... not so good? We are not so close as before. In text she would vent her feelings to me however when I vent my feelings to her she will just reply with " Lol", " Stop seeking attention", " I had it worst", " So?". Idk maybe just me but that is kinda... unfair I guess. She started skipping school and encourage me to skip it too. When I did something amazing or something that get many people's attention, she will always find a way to get herself involve. Example, when I finished a drawing and some people saw it and they started complementing me and just attracting more and more attention. She will just walk up and yell " GUYS! I HELPED HER WITH THE EYES! GIVE ME SOME COMPLEMENT TOO!". That is not even the worst part, the worst part is that she did not even help me with ANYTHING. Whenever I tried to tell her that our friendship is getting kinda weird or toxic, she will yell " NO! WE ARE BEST FRIENDS! DID YOU FOUND ANOTHER FRIEND? I HATE YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH! I HOPE YOU D!E !"
so.. question, is she really a good friend, i really can't think since she is my friend and stuff. I mean, she is kinda harsh but she is still my friend. How do I tell her that I am kinda done with the friendship?
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No, a best friend is someone who's meant to support you. I think the friendship is unbalance, maybe she just needs some work on herself. Best option is to try and have a deep convo with her, tell her about how you feel (without being too harsh) but she needs to know how she's affecting you. Once you talk to her about how you're friendship seems rather hard to keep, maybe then she'll realise and who knows, you guys might come back together shortly
Replyidk abt this, poster should be allow to have boundaries and listened too. if the Friend feels unwell in the friendship she should communicate it (their trust must be strong if they are truly best friends? Criticism is necessary to grow ). also friendships arent always meant to last, some are for just the moments.
ReplySimply telling her directly, not an easy one but the correct one. explain why you are ending it so she doesnt assume u just drop her and hopefully she will become self aware of her behavior. This is also for you, dont bottle these things up because it will also hurt u which u dont deserve. When if she doesnt realize her behavior u still tried and cant change her unless she herself wants too. stay safe my friend and stay strong
ReplyThe only thing you can do is to SPEAK YOUR HEART OUT!
She is friends with you only for her benefit(MAY BE SHE IS A CLOUT CHASER) or is using you for something. And yes she is toxic and that friendship is toxic as well, so leave that friend and friendship! You deserve BETTER!
(P.S WE CAN BE F.R.I.E.N.D.S as well)
ReplyIdk how old you are but this person seems to be toxic and should not be in your life. She only going to continue to put you down and drain you. She is not your friend. She is a hater and obviously you’ve listed things that show her as is. It’s okay to stop being her friend and telling her these things and just walk away. She has shown you her true colors and she will get worse once you end the friendship. Then you’ll realize it was best to let her go
Replyyou will have to confront her about it, living in a relationship that is toxic will cause more damage since its'..well toxic. I think you should go up to her and tell her. Based on your description of her, I can tell that she'll make a big fuss about that too. Even so, you should tell her you don't wanna be with her anymore.
I hope you'll be feeling great again!
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