I'm not a bad person.

So the other night for some reason my boyfriend decided to list negative words associated with me. Cruel I know.

Anyway according to him I'm narcissistic, patronising and condescending. He says I think I'm better than everyone else and that I try to make him feel stupid.

I've heard all this before and not just from him. I know I'm narcissistic, I can't really help that. I think I'm amazing, I try to be the best person in the world. But then obviously when I try to be a good person and try to be the best human to ever live people just see me as trying to make them seem stupid. It's not really anything to do with them and I don't try to make people feel dumb or talk down to them. I simply try to be the best, I have to be better than them.

I don't have bad intentions for the things I say, I don't correct people to be horrible or make them out to be stupid. If I'm wrong I want to be corrected so I can be better, so I can learn. I feel like others should want the same. Wouldn't it be cruel for me to not correct them and leave them to embarras themselves infront of others?

What's worse though is that I then asked my boyfriend to list good things about me. All he could think of is that I like animal and that I listen to him even when I don't care what he's talking about.

I guess I felt like a bad girlfriend, like how do I deal with that? He thinks I want him to feel stupid. He thinks I purposely put him down. How do I stop making him feel like that? How do I be better? I don't want people to think I'm a bad person.