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K so my bff since kindergarten LOVES Halloween. Her family makes it a huge deal and every year I go over to their house and help with trick or treaters and to just hang out with her. We call it our "friend anniversary" because we first became friends in October.
Anyway, I wasn't there last year for ✨reasons✨ and I won't be able to go this year because I'm flying to another state to go to my cousin's baby shower that weekend. I know that as soon as I tell her I'm not gonna be there she's going to complain about it for days and beg me to stay. She does that all the time when things don't go her way. I really don't feel like dealing with it this time. I'm planning on telling her at school so if she starts whining about it, I can just leave after the period is over.
I'm also flying alone because the prices for two tickets are crazy. I'm nervous about it though because the last time I flew on an airplane was when I was 3 and now I'm 14.... so it's been a while. I barely even know what the inside of an airport looks like. Watch me get lost and end up in China or something lol.
I'm still excited though because I want to be more independent. Being independent is fun and all, but I think this is a little much eheh.. Ugh. This is gonna be an experience for sure 🥲
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well, I think your friend should understand that you have somewhere important to be. It's really isn't a big deal. I mean, me and my friends don't even have a friend's anniversary and we're good. so, don't think that some anniversary that is very minor to the grand of your friendship, be a reason to break it. It's really is not a big deal, just talk to her and let her see why you wont be able to be there, say sorry. and maybe even make it up to her by having a Halloween party later on. Even if it wasn't in Halloween in doesn't really matter.
Replyyour friend will feel how they feel. what is a big deal to one person isn't always to another, and vice versa. and you're not responsible for your friend's feelings. but if you care about them and you know this is a big deal to them, you can make choices that acknowledge that. like saying, "hey, i'm not gonna make it on halloween this year, and i know it's a big deal to you, and i really do want to celebrate our friendiversary, so can we brainstorm together something else awesome we can do to celebrate it on a different october day?"
wishing you a safe and easy flight.
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