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So, two days ago I inherited a cottage after my father. I could be the only owner but suddenly my brother changed his mind so we are co-owners now. And the arguments started almost immediately on the same day.
Honesty, it was me who wanted the cottage at first and my brother no. But he changed his mind. The cottage is in bad condition, however, I believe in the centre of the cottage is the old "heart" of the cottage (probably over 100 old) which could be preserved as a cultural heritage and a memory of our family. My brother has wild ideas to throw the cottage down. Build a new one and - earn a lot of money. (this is not realistic) I do not want to. Also, I do not have money for that, I am a student without income.
Moreover, not only my brother but also my grandma started to give me "advice" on what to do with the money and the cottage I inherited. My mum as well. I am getting crazy. It is mine, I can do whatever I want to do with it and I am not decided for now what will happen, because it is only 2 days. They talk about it a lot and I am getting mad. My mum said that there are old cottages which can be transported to this place OR new ones can be built there. I would prefer to rid off things we do not want, sell everything that we do not want to keep and ask a specialist if the cottage (the historical part) is possible to preserve. Also, there is no water, heating nor sewerage and there is only a dry toilet. The cottage is in the mountains, so the road is difficult... uggg...I do not know... I have some ideas but for now, I can not realize them until I do not have income. Also, there is a problem with the ownership of the lands around the cottage and - it is me who is going to solve it. And my brother behaves like ... it is nothing that I do every paperwork instead of him. he is ridiculous.
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He doesn't want to miss out. Hopefully one day you will have the money to buy his other half and have full ownership.
I am a woman with two younger brothers, one 8 years younger than me, and the other 11 years younger. I hadn't been in contact with them for quite some time and I decided to contact the youngest one. I did and found out that our horrible nasty mother was dead and my brother said that she had left the house to him, left money to my other brother, and left me nothing. I believed this for four years until one day I received a letter from my deceased mother's lawyer who wanted my permission for the side back fence to be rebuilt. I called the lawyer and told him that my brother owned the house and then I found out that my other brother and I had been left the house between us and the younger one had life tenancy in the house and no one had been left any money. So the younger one had lied to me. He didn't and still doesn't own the house at all. When I told him what I had found out he lied and said he doesn't understand legal things. He does as he 's not stupid. Anyway, what I am saying is to be wary of your brother and also don't let others talk you into doing anything you don't want to.
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