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Does anyone know what I’m talking about? So one time I was at an activity center sorta place. I was in a group with a bunch of teenagers my age (14-17.) randomly they started talking about drugs and vaping. I kind of stayed out of the conversation. Then one of the girls asked me if I did any drugs and I said “no.” Then she said “yea I figured I looked innocent.” WTF is this supposed to mean. I cant even fit in without drinking or doing drugs? I know it’s not something bad but they way she said it made me feel like shit and people mainly say “you look innocent” as an insult. First of all I have a conscience and guilt my parents literally said they never wanted me to do it. Next I don’t want fucking lung or liver failure thanks I’m already struggling enough. I don’t know what she meant by “you look innocent” but it PISSED me off. I feel like she was just calling me ugly in an indirect way. In her pov she prob thinks cool kids who do drugs look “edgy and hot” and since I didn’t look hot I didn’t do drugs. Aghhh it annoys me sm. Ok so what I don’t like to party or do drugs. I still have a personality unlike some people who think taking drugs is their only personality trait and is bland as hell. Does anyone get what I’m saying?? This is why I have anxiety of how people judge me based on my looks. You cant tell how someone is based on their looks. Trust me I’ve had close friends who told me they vape and drink and I was still shocked.
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Bro if your friends family or the people you hang with are trying to peer pressure you into doing stuff you don't wanna do especially drugs , just get away from them.You look “inoccent” is just a way of saying “yeah you don't look like you drugs” let it go and get away from those people it's just not worth your time and usually they'll keep asking thinking they can break you down into saying “yes” to try it , cause if you do it too it makes them feel better about themselves, strongly advise you find better people that suit you to hang out with if a simple incident like this is already a huge issue to your emotions and self esteem
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ReplyHeyy! I totally get what you're saying it sucks to be judged based on your looks. But I want you to know that what they say doesn't define you . You are much more than all that! Don't try to fit in! People like this will find fault with you no matter what. Today it's about drugs tomorrow it'll be about something else. Find better friends who will cherish you for who you are trust me it'll be worth it. And abt the drugs and all. Don't do it coz of peer pressure! You decide fir yourself ! And I think its really sweet that you're respecting your parents desires as well. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you . You ARE good enough. And I know I haven't met you but I think you're a strong ,kind and beautiful person. Things willl get better I promise. Sending love♥️
ReplyAww thanks so much ily <3
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