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So, its first time I am experimenting this thing .. Never ever I have seek solutions for my confusions or problems like this.. But, after 2 years of this abusive one side marriage I so wanted to explore some new prospective of life. I might not been doing right but I am tired of being a good, understanding, morally responsible person. For once, I want to keep myself as first priority. So, the thing is I have started liking this person who is my friend. By like i mean i feel good talking to him and its nothing like romantic sort of attractiveness. It just I met him after almost 7 years after school. I feel happy and alive sharing things with him. But, some how as it deep down conditioned in my head that being married you are not feel happy with some else other than your husband. So, i dont know i should talk to my friend or stop it here only.. Can you guys help me out with some suggestions??
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Hi im doing great thanks! Yea so your having an emotional affair. It's pretty cool to see your convictions as a wife. Cuz you not being sure if this is okay is a good sign. I'm sorry your in a abusive relationship but do you believe in restoration? Do you believe things can heal? Do you know your husbands love language or does he know yours? I would go all out in making this work but it takes two. I pray your husband tries to make it work. As for your 7 year friend, I would reassure to this guy that you are willing to fight for your marriage. Make it known to this guy that you love your husband and you need help. Have this guy point you to making your marriage work.
ReplyThank you so much for taking time out and reply to this. I totally get the thing about me trying to work it out. so yes its been 2 years since i go married and in just a week I had been told to go to my parents place. Since then, its has been an in out thing. I tried to manage every thing at both the houses(my in laws & my parents place). But, My husband is not taking initiative to take me back without giving any reason. Everyone around me are concern about my future as they are sure that my husband dont want to be with me & that's why dont bother to take any news of me and my well being. But even after this I am trying my hard to not let me loose my hope. And yes this friend of mine is well aware about how much I want to be with my husband & I'm just waiting him to take me. So, shall I continue to be friends with him?
ReplySounds like a tortuous situation to be in. Really sorry about all this. Does your husband know about your 7 year friend? If so that would definitely turn your husband off. Just the idea of you seeing any guy for ANY reason will torment your husbands thought life. I would continue to let this situation be known and seek guidance from marriage counselors. Keep doing that and if your husband doesn't want to comply. Then its likely he's got issues that you don't even know about. At the end of the day to make marriage work, its all about communication. He needs to communicate his insecurities/struggles and you have to sympathize with that.
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