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I have a huge problem. I like someone underage.... I'm 15, almost 16, and I really like a 9-year-old. She's way more mature than any 9 yo I've ever met; she's probably almost at my maturity level. I obviously won't do anything cuz no one wants to be that guy, but wtf do I do? Pls help
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Good that you're clear on the "won't do anything" part. Since that is out of the picture i think it's okay for you to explore, to see why you like the girl. It seems you have a connection with her in terms of maturity so if you give it time you may get more clarity perhaps!?
ReplyMaybe you can try to maintain your distance from her ... because no matter whatever you say a 9 year old is still a kid and you yourself not even a major as per my country age ... so just stay strong on nor going to do anything with her part ... because it can really mess up both of yours life and probably can traumatize her so be more thoughtful about your actions... you can try distracting yourself.... do anything but just stay away from her because as a human our feelings are always messed up and we sometimes end of doing things we shouldn't and regret it later ... I hope you get what am saying so In short it is best for both of you to maintain your distance
Replywhat the fuck. Man try finding yourself a real girl not a kid jesus
ReplyI proud of you for recognising that there is an issue here. Although you might think she is mature for her age, it's not safe. She has only been on earth for 9 years, there is no way she has the experience of a 15 year old. She may have characteristics of a maturer person but it may be due to her exposure to different environments. She is still under experience to the world and it may be best to give her that space to mature.
For you, perhaps do a self evaluation, maybe she can be inspiration that you could do some more growth and you can advance yourself or challenge yourself to accomplish more for yourself when compared to others your age.
I recommend creating distance between you two and figure out exactly what it is you think you're connecting with.
I am proud of you for sharing. We're all her to help each other.
Here's a link about emotional maturity, I hope it helps. " distance yourself" - I want the best for you.
https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/emotional-maturity#tips-for-development
Replyi mean, there are such a couple of years, 7 /6 to be exactly but i dont see it wrong, but iwill be honest, if you are that type of guy that wants to go fast and will get pressure on her and etc, dont do it, but if u considerate urself enought mature,( because the most mature here has to be you), do it / try, ofc if she is wants and blablabla
ReplyIf you like her that much, wait until you're both legal. Then, it's perhaps taboo but not unmanageable. If you're not prepared to wait - and I do mean wait without being suggestive or letting on at all - you have to find a way to move on. If you can, be her friend. If you can't do that without wanting to be with her romantically, try and distance yourself.
ReplyWait. Build a friendship if you really like her then be patient. your also young
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